My cock is a respectable 6.5 c hard but when soft, it varies in size alot. Sometimes it's like a 2 inch stub - other times it's a nice slender 4 - 5 inches. When getting undressed with a new guy for the first time, this can be a little embarrassing if he sees my dick is only 2 inches soft. There is no stimulation to make the size difference. What accounts for the difference from time to time in the size of one's soft cock?

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From my personal observations:
1. Temperature
2. Snugness of underwear

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Don't you just fucking hate that?

I'm a grower as well and deal with the same issues. Think of it this way though to make yourself feel better:

With a "shower", it's kind of like having christmas gifts under the tree already unwrapped, and that's no fun right? ;-)

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I'm a grower too but if I'm getting undressed with a new guy I'm usually well on my way to an erection if I'm not already there.

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If the guy has been around other dicks at all, he's gonna realize what he sees soft bears no relationship to what he'g gonna get when you are hard.

If you are more nervous excited than horny excited, you can cause yourself to draw in and become smaller. It is a safety reflex designed to protect your gonads in fight/flight situations.

Besides, sometimes it can give the illusion you are bigger than you are due to the size difference between when you are soft and when you ar hard.

If you wear bikini or tighty whities, go commando. That way your cock has all the room it needs to stretch. My cock is always bigger flaccid when I go commando then when I wear underwear. Another plus is that your balls tend to hang lower if they have the freedom to swing freely. Underwear just gets in the way of fun anyhow.

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i remember a fella, 1st time i had him it looked like just a head with a rumpled skin, thought he was uncut. He was very nervous. I started sucking, and ... oh my... was I surprised! had to be 8 in a short time. massive somewhat quick cum too. Next time he was more relaxed, still looked on the smaller side, but full up quicker, and a little longer lasting.

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I'm a grower for sure. It doesn't matter if I'm around a really hot guy or gal or just trying to crank one out by myself. I start out with a stub. However, I can get to about 6", and sometimes it can get really fat with a thick load. If I can get some action before I have to whip it out, its not a big deal, but its frustrating when I want something to happen but my dick isn't ready.
Idk why this is the case, but its what I've got and just have to make due.

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