I was sorry Poz_biM to read of your status and the situations you had with your wife.
When I see that the word used is "safer" not "safe," I do think twice about unprotected oral sex which is usually classified as "safer." Usually in discussions about oral sex there is mention that someone might have dental bleeding or other problems in the mouth, that might give an opening to the virus infection. As the statistics show, it is still rare to transmit HIV during oral sex, according to what I have read.
Rarely, however, in cruising, do I see a man using a condom during oral sex with men. Female prostitutes nowadays seem to be giving up on a condom during oral sex, as well.
Poz, it does not seem to me that you are less likely to transmit the disease, but maybe you are no worse than the untested and unprotected one, The odd thing is that many cruisers seem to think have sex with a married man is safer because he is extra carefuls inthat he does not want to give anything to his wife. I think you shot down that idea.
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