K, we all have our own preferences, when it comes to messin' around.
Yet, reciprocation is by no means an integral part of gay sex. It is possibly becoming one under the influence of porno industry for obvious reasons.
I have been sexually very active for over 25 years now and have certainly had more than 2,000 partners. Disregarding the relatively small number of 'wrong connections', when I bumped into another top, so nothing really happened and we quickly parted in search of new partners, I can think of only 2-3 guys who asked for reciprocation. Admittedly, a few guys indicated they would like it during the play, but when I declined, they continued anyway, without much ado.
Just like we say in San Francisco, 'versatile' really means, 'bottom' but sounds better.
Indeed, most guys, no matter how much 'bottoms' they happen to be, also want to get their rocks off. Usually, this happens while servicing a top, they find hot. Some guys would go on 'bottoming' for a while until they hit a dude who would go down to his knees and/or sometimes even bend over for them, so that they can top, too. So, in most cases, under all the right conditions, no one goes home empty-handed, so to say.
Superficially, it looks like the tops are having all the fun. Yet, this really is not true by any length of imagination. Bttm guys bottom simply because that's what they feel is the source of their sexual satisfaction. And admittedly, what most guys want is 'lots and lots of sex'. Unless you are 16 with raging hormones, being a top, you can only have sex with 2-3 guys on a good night, unless you want to shoot blanks, that is. Being a bottom gives you a far wider scope. So, yeah, if you meant 'justice' as 'justice in equality' and expressed it by 'reciprocation'. Yes, there is justice in the system, too.
KD
