Welcome LesterBB ;-
Why do you think he's a player?
Other than that, just go with it. As much as we'd like to think we have a list of pre-requisites for a partner, it's really all about chemistry. If I look back at my serious relationships, my partners have been all over the map in terms of what I think my "ideal" mate is and a couple of those relationships have spawned out of a "no strings hook up" at first.
So, if you're hot for him, go meet him on that premise and if there's something more there, you'll both feel it and act accordingly.
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