jazzguy6978 correctly gave the definition of top and bottom that most gay guys use. However, beware that "top" and "bottom" mean something different to people into sadomasochism (S&M) or bondage and discipline (B/D). Often, top refers to the dominate partner, whereas bottom refers to the submissive partner. The sex acts in S&M and B/D do not have to include anal sex.
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