The thing about anonymous cruising is that some of our tricks treat us to experiences that we never expected from a fellow cruiser. If you are an active cruiser and your lifestyle is filled with many anonymous tricks, you stand a good chance to have an experience that makes you rethink many things about your lifestyle.
So, what did you learn from this bad hookup experience? Bad experiences do teach us something about ourselves and other people. Let's face it. Shit happens for a reason. Look at all the shit that has happened to Scruffy who has been cruising since age 14. Bad hookups do happen and we learn from those experiences. We may need to make a few adjustments in our lives and then move on with our lives.
Stay positive and focused. Learn from this one bad experience and make changes in your lifestyle if needed. Then, get busy again and move on with your life.
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-- Abraham Lincoln
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