For laos it is worth checking out sites like face-pic and gaydar.co.uk and making contact with some of the guys before you go.
In Vientianne - Chess cafe has closed. Night clubs like Marina always have some gay guys around. The Mandarina Massage place on right hand side of road between Laos Plaza Hotel and the square with the fountain has 3 or 4 guys (not always visible) you get a hand job and often can suck the guy. Occasionally get a couple of guys cruising at the fountain square (nice Crepe place just before the square - if you sit on the upstairs balcony can check out if any one is cruising - or chat up the waiters). The large bar on far right hand side of the square has many cute waiters that should know if any action. Otherwise along river front at or after dusk and the main road there making eye contact sometimes has results. Have had guys on motorbikes stop and ask me. But it is all luck on the day and how patient you want to be.
But internet is best.
Another tip I use when travelling is always specifically request a younger male guide as find it easier to ask them questions about night entertainment than female ones - obviously.
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