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Originally posted by ButchMascGuy
The reason why I self-identify as a homosexual is because I'm not a heterosexual-impaired male. ?
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Well, I'm not sure what you mean when you use the term "heterosexual-impaired male." I assume you mean a malke who is gay and closeted, for whatever reason. But I think I agree with what you are trying to say.
Remember there are guys who are in love with their wives and both of them suck cocks together from time to time. But the male doesn't secretly desire to have a gay relationship and be divorced from his wife.
Take another example of the prison inmate who sucks his cellmates cock, and vice-versa, but when he gets out does not "turn gay."
The main point here is simple. If you honestly desire to have relations with a female, you pursue them, have sex with them, and hang out where you can interact with them as opposed to desiring to have relationships with men, have sex with them, hang out where gay men hang out, then you are straight. The opposite is also true.
Trying to psyco-analyze "all men" with only a specific sample is committing the "specific to general" fallacy.
Those who think that wanting to suck a cock is a percursor to being gay are playing right into the religious right's hand, since they too think that this "learning" is a social thing and being gay can be unlearned. It's not only about social norms, but very real biological and innate drives that no one has control over.
Deer are said to be "bi-sexual" but that doesn't mean they are "gay." Bucks are seen humping each other all of the time, but when that female goes into estrus, they ain't humpin each other anymore. Since deer have no social norms, since they are not cognitive of such concepts, this is a good example of biological drives only--it's a sexual need. It doesn't just turn off when a female in estrus is not around.