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Qbancock · #38 17th November 2006, 08:53 PM

The original poster and I sound a lot alike.

My wife is hot and I have two sons. I never had a lack of female companions and have done everything under the sun sexually with women.

In high school I started thinking about guys but never acted on it.

At the ripe old age of 40 I got divorced and my best friend who IS gay and I were in my condo looking at porn
( didn't I KNOW what was cumming next ?) when he just bent over and started giving me head.

We ended up in the bedroom in a hot 69 and the rest is history. I know see him very occasionally.

Nine years later I go to the Roman holiday at least twice a month, meet guys and have sex. I fuck, have never been fucked, don't really like to suck cock but like getting sucked and I rim.

Every time that I did something I got a little bolder. it took me a LONG time to go to a bath house or actually call someone and get together at their house just to have sex.

I actually engaged in " small talk ' with one of my first internet connections and he had to basically tell me that that was not the way this type of encounter was played so why waste time.

I'll still go to a TJ whorehouse and fuck a girl on Monday and go to the RH on a Tuesday with no reservations whatsoever. I really do not question my masculinity at all, I just like variety.

I have gotten over my guilt completely. I felt guilty for a long time though. Now my friend just says to enjoy it, at least I have choices others don't.

What I like about the Bi experience is perhaps that there are never any strings attached, no negotiations, no cash, no nothing. Just a good ol fashioned good time.

I do have three " regulars " that I get together with and they know what the name of the game is. Nothing more than sex.

As another poster wrote, relax, don't label it and enjoy.