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Originally Posted by buzzard
I would agree with almost all of those statements. ...something that I find is not the case as far as I'm concerned, is finding an enjoyable boy to go home with. ... and one who likes to keep regulars for several years at a time.
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I guess it would be more accurate for me to say I have still been able to find really enjoyable long term boys without too much trouble. I suppose, based on that, I over-generalized and said
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I still find the boys in the bars to be as enjoyable as ever
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I recently found a[nother] really great guy at one of the bars in Soi Twilight. I was making monthly visits to Bangkok to see him, but then found it more convenient for him to do the travelling to my home. And last week we made a permanent arrangement (one year guaranteed, but renewable indefinitely). He gets a monthly salary plus rent payments for his room and a few other perks. He travels to my place twice a month and stays for 3 or 4 days at a time... I really enjoy his company, but I also enjoy living alone much of the time. He's the fourth boy I've retired from the business. All four hated working in the bars and were eager to escape and all four (who were great to begin with) improved over time after they stopped working in the bars.(And functionning in
Nanny-State mode, I've coerced two to stop smoking & greatly reduce their drinking).
I have one other long-termer, now in his 30's, on monthly retainer, but rarely seen and a third who still works in a bar and is on call a few times a month.
Like you, I enjoy having a regular boy or three , but occasionally grow butterfly wings. The regulars have been so great, it may have coloured my perception, but even when I play butterfly I think I've had a 75% success rate.