Calling names will stay with us for as long as their is something called a 'language'. We've got to live with that.
Yet, most guys recognize those who are there to disturb, gossip and generally make sure that no one has any fun, while they are hanging around. Sure, you cannot really chase them away.
But you can take a proactive approach and try to hook up with the dudes, you are interested in; possibly wait for a while until the right guy(s) show up and move on.
A guy, who is determined to have sex with other dudes will never be swayed by the 'trolls' of any kind. He is on a mission and he'll go for it. Dudes, who are just bored and are into wasting their time, because they have not got anything better to do but pose around... well, that's a different story altogether...
KD
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