Wow! Thanks for all this advice. Especially point number 1 is something I really need to work on. Dare I make it my New Year's resolution?
I have a partner, half my age, and it has definitely been of the sugar daddy variety. Generally we get along well and much of what you say, seems true for us. Sometime over the last year he told me I reminded him of his father (deceased) and it freaked me out. I have zero interest in seeing myself in that way with him. Partner, yes. Equal, yes. Daddy, no fucking way. But I suppose it may be unavoidable since I am, after all, literally old enough to be his father.
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