If you want to try and take the things to a different level, come up with a truthful story next time around.
Tell him that you are getting busy and that you still want to meet up with him regularly but that you may not be able to frequent the ABS as often as before. If he wants to play, he'll have to text you. Add that loads of people come to the ABS and that this is not that discrete anymore, so you would rather meet in private for that reason, too.
Sure, he may run for the hills. And he may never call you. But his choices are limited. If he does not get in touch, he'll be there where you can find him, and since he has a had a number of good hookups with you, he'll come back to you again.
Play the "discretion" card and never mention that it would be nice to be recognized elsewhere...
KD
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