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1st September 2010, 11:23 PM
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If you want to try and take the things to a different level, come up with a truthful story next time around.
Tell him that you are getting busy and that you still want to meet up with him regularly but that you may not be able to frequent the ABS as often as before. If he wants to play, he'll have to text you. Add that loads of people come to the ABS and that this is not that discrete anymore, so you would rather meet in private for that reason, too. Sure, he may run for the hills. And he may never call you. But his choices are limited. If he does not get in touch, he'll be there where you can find him, and since he has a had a number of good hookups with you, he'll come back to you again. Play the "discretion" card and never mention that it would be nice to be recognized elsewhere... KD       |
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23rd October 2010, 07:28 AM
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I happen to work a block or so down the street from two well known ABS'S, but for the stated reason above, I don't go to them. |
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16th June 2021, 07:50 AM
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I have hooked up at cruising spots in the woods. Many times, it is the same guys. We have sucked and fucked each other dozens of times. We might chat a little as we play, but I don't ask their names, and they don't ask mine. One day, I was shopping with my wife in Target and I saw a guy in there with his girl (wife/gf). I remembered he was really pushy at the cruising spot, so I made sure to stay out of sight of him. The last thing I needed was for him to wave at me, look at me, or acknowledge that he somehow knew me because my wife would be asking me "How do you know that guy?" If you want to hook up with ABS guy, ask him if he wants to hook up elsewhere. If he says no, then leave it alone!
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