To me, higher-quality means someone who does not: (1) ask me how I like his picture or how pretty he looks, (2) ask me in the first e-mail, "come on, be honest, tell me what you're really looking for" (already starting a little sadistic mind game), (3) respond to a detailed communication by just saying "hi" (indicating a lot of farangs already hogging his time), (4) seems normal and not narcissic, (5) generally doesn't seem like a useless Pattaya twink. I've communicated with one farang in Bangkok who hates gayromeo. But I don't really hate it: I met some very nice Thai guys before my last trip, and actually connected with some of them (one of which I still really like). But most of the guys I met played games when I called them when I arrived in Bangkok, and some were clearly just out to milk farangs.
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