Not wanting to appear like I'm ganging up on you, Mr. Icon, but for the vast majority of gay men I've ever encountered who were on the younger end of the age spectrum, mid-forties, your stated age, is beyond over the hill. These men look at you and see the old in you that you don't see, just as you look at those much older men and perhaps you see old in them they do not see. At least on this side of the ocean, old/troll/ancient begins at about age 35.
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