I'm tall and slim (especially my limbs) and I have a lot of difficulty connecting in Babylon, and am amazed to see how the Thai IMMEDIATELY go in with very-average-looking older farangs. I think that being tall and slim is a handicap. But it seems that you can be MEDIUM height and slim, and that's okay (age and silver hair help a lot). I've seen young hot farangs who were slim and appeared to have trouble connecting. I've also noticed different results depending on which of my two pairs of eyeglasses I wear (this applies to all my cruising in Bangkok)--even though the glasses are almost the same. I've noticed that wearing a bathing suit or underwear is bad--it must be a towel. The place makes no sense whatsoever--I've often thought it's totally weird, and I still can't figure it out. I usually end up connecting with very slim Thai (which I'm not really attracted to) or short (who are usually very self-conscious about it) or slightly older (like 30) and slightly homely (but who end up being the best kissers and sex). I wonder if my wearing glasses is bad--I won't wear contacts, so maybe I should try walking around in blurriness. I've also noticed that the farangs who come in with no expression on their face, no smile, connect immediately. I think I have too friendly of an appearance--which could be a handicap. (Note: I had great success in that new downstairs area under the metal grates--for some weird unknown reason, I do better there than other farangs who go in there.)
Another thing: I like younger nerdy types with glasses, but they universally reject me immediately (and usually in the most nasty way). So it appears that younger guys with glasses are turned off by older guys with glasses.
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