I'd hesitate to use the word 'fetishist' but it's true that there is a lot of interest in more mature and bigger men, regardles of race.
Don't forget that in Asia, a man of girth has been considered a prosperous one for thousands of years, any fetishistic tendencies aside.
In addition, I think they feel less threatened by men 'with more to offer' - a younger, slimmer farang of any age should have no trouble hooking up and is less likely to be amenable to sob stories about dead buffaloes or sick grandmothers, so he could be competiton of some kind...after all, less attractive farang might be turned on by him.
They don't really understand that most farang who walk into a Thai sauna aren't looking to hook up with another farang, mature or not, no matter how attractive he might be.
Maybe this is just me being cynical, I don't know. I can't really claim to speak for anyone else but me though I am basing my opinions on observation and experience.
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