This is my first post, so if I make some stupid mistake, pls forgive..

I've been going to BKK for 20 yrs and have been reading this message board for years as well.
I can remember having cocktails on the rooftop of old Babylon and going to Tawan bar when it was 1/2 the size it is now. I've had massages all over from Ambassador hotel to Hero to Albury. I've danced my ass off into the wee hours at the Rome Club and feared for my life being trapped in an inferno on the 3rd floor of DJ station. I can even remember the amazement the 1st time I got a 1000 baht note. So I've been around the traps...

When I was younger I used to go to Babylon ,"blow and go", and then catch a show at Tawan, Barbiery or one of the other bars. But now I am getting older and bolder, I have offed a number of guys from Tawan (and other bars).
These is just my thoughts to be put into the mix. For every different customer there is a different way of looking at things:

- Don't sit there looking like a spinster aunt at a funeral with your arms crossed and a sour look on you puss.
Most of the guys have a cheeky sense of humour and if you play on that it is easier to break the ice rather than talking about which hotel you are staying at etc(yawn).

-If possible, off a guy that you have had some connection with. If you catch the eye of your dream guy when he's on stage, and he looks at you with cold fish eyes then looks away...twice, chances are that things might be a bit frosty back in the hotel room. But if you get a smirk, or a raised eyebrow, or a touch on the shoulder as he walks past, then things might go a bit more smoothly.
Times I have offed a guy purely on looks, they have been professional, and it is amazing to have a fantastic body to play with for a few hours, but the service was perfunctory and there was a lot of squirmy awkward silences.
Guys who might not be my 1st choice physically, but I had a good time with in the bar invariably have been great offs and ultimately a great experience.

-Manage your expectation. If you are expecting nipple caressing soft focus lovemaking all night long, or to get to gonzo-porn pound his tight ass, you might be disappointed (but then again you might not...its all a bit of a crap shoot [no pun intended]). But at least you do get to grope, be groped, suck and rub up next to a body for a few hours that if that happened to me in the changing room of a gym, I would be over the moon.

-Finally, treat the guys with respect. Have a clean towel and bottle of water for them in the hotel room. Let them have a shower by themselves when they first arrive. Regardless of how much bravado they might have, it is only human to be a little apprehensive having just entered a stranger's hotel room. If you give them some space and they feel confident you won't try to fist them in the 1st five minutes they will open up and the whole experience will be better for both of you.

-Tipping: This is always a hot button issue here on the forum. I tip B2000 for guys from Tawan ; and it is always about 2 hrs. I have never discussed money before offing a guy, I've handed the money folded over after the deed and , without fail, every guy has said thanks and took the money without checking. (I have assiduously checked to see if they peek, but they don't). For all they know they're getting B1500 but it has never been an issue. I tip B2000 because it feels the right amount.

Good luck, and happy hunting.

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