My general experience in Indonesia... The men are mostly tops, I would say 75% consider themselves to be tops or vers tops and fully 20% will not bottom. The sex is mostly unprotected, although most will wrap up if you request it (and provide a condom). Safe sex is more likely if you cruise online or at one of the high-end clubs. The sex is mostly of the quick hit-n-run variety. Many will stay for several hours, but asking to stay overnight (or go to breakfast the next day) is very unlikely... they have to go home to their wife/girlfriend/parents/etc. Jakarta is a HUGE city, but only has a handfull of cruising spots... so it's hard to miss. Get a blackberry (just buy one off ebay) and learn to use BBM... it's your best friend in Indonesia Learn to use IRC (for anyone under 35, that's internet relay chat... predecessor to modern messengers).. use channel #GIM on DALNET 9M for a sexclub and Moonlight for a cruisy dance club are, by far, the best cruising places.

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