I agree. I have yet to see a guy wearing a sign, saying, "I am here to suck cock"

If you take, an easy, unhurried attitude, and figure out the active spots, you'll soon notice that some dudes just come in, piss, hardly look anywhere, and leave. They are either not interested, busy, scared or hiding... Unless you see them coming back every 5-10 min. disregard them. They are not looking for anything... Simply ignore them.

Then, there are those other guys, who are kinda really taking their time. They are making sure that they get at least a half-hardon before they piss. They are also likely to make sure that they shake it off pretty well afterwards. These dudes are usually looking surreptitiously around. Mimic their behavior. They are not afraid to look. Why should you be afraid to do the same?

Once the place gets quieter, and the guys see little or no danger of being disturbed, the ones who want to have some fun there and then will step back and make sure that the dudes they are interested in see their tools waiting.

This is when you call shots. You either kinda nod, or agree to it with a smile, and take the next step or you pass if who you see ain't to your liking.

Most dudes won't lose much time, and will move into the next free cabin. The others would exchange nods, and go somewhere more private, especially if they are gonna take their time...

Now, make sure that what you are doing is not illegal in your jurisdiction. Learn what to do, and how to behave if the play turns foul. Like with everything else in life, have an exit strategy. Consider taking calculated risks only.

Work on developing your intuition. If it feels wrong, it is probably wrong. Err on the side safety. You are probably NOT going to meet the love of your life under such circumstances. Much of it is just a play coupled with some sexual politics.

You are probably taking a quick BJ and nothing else. So, if it works, fine...

KD

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