I have never had that happen -
If it did I would more likely be in Roy's shoes (only older and not naturally fit - damn it!)
It probably took a LOT of courage for him to enter that bar - assuming it was clearly a gay bar.
I would guess in his upbringing being gay was not an option - even if is gay.
Make sure you act just the same as always at work - if he is dealing with his sexuality he is probably scared to death of being "outed". Just keep it low key and let him know if he ever wants to talk you will be happy to listen - but don't press the issue.
For some people accepting being gay was always easy - for others it will always be something they never completely accept about themselves. Not saying that is right - it is just reality.
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