It speaks well of someone who is willing to help a guy he knows superficially in the hour of need.
But I would not read too much into this.
No doubt, he is going through a turmoil, and sees himself as someone who has failed to understand women. (Good News: he is one of very, very many
) Under the circumstances, a gay bar may be a good temporary refuge from his point of view.
I would stop short of doing anything else here. He needs to sort himself out. You offer is on the table...
KD