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Originally Posted by KewlDewd66
There was something very valuable about this whole underground m2m sex going on during our college years. Gay dudes had their heyday.
More so, str8 guys who joined in the game, discovered that m2m sex did not mean the end of the world as they knew it. A few of them became open-minded and accepting. On a more personal level, they broke a huge taboo, and stopped being hostages of a heteronormative society.
KD
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Very true KD -
The gay / bi guys were not looking to date / marry / out the straight guy that just wants to get off -
It was about the sex.
The feeling was "neither of us act like Liberace so we must be straight" - so it was not threatening to their being "straight" - you were both just horny.
Also I think the fact you had seen many of the guys naked - in the dorms - in the showers - you were used to that - and it was a major first step to get over.
It was the need to get off - and the desire to do more than jack off.
With some it would only happen when we were drunk - others it would only to to a certain point - and in almost all cases it was never talked about - until you were ready for the next time.
Guys knew back then you would never "out" them for playing around - so in some ways they were less afraid to try....