I do not see myself as anyone's moral guardian. If a dude has a commitment, and he wants to cheat on his partner, that is purely between him and his partner.
A few guys say that they do not wish to be instrumental in cheating. Well, more power to them. A dude who wants to have an affair on the side will have it with me or without me. My rejection won't stop him.
I understand the guys who do not wish to complicate their lives by getting hooked up with someone who is in a committed relationship because they rightly fear that they will be always the ones who would be put on the back burner. I also understand the guys who are planning to live in an LTR, and see a commitment as a huge impediment to their plans.
But, the moral side of the issue is simply not for me to worry about.
KD
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