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Originally Posted by KewlDewd66
I have come across a few bttm dudes who did not want to talk about it. I can see their point. They want sex, not a chat. I am fine with that.
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I find that younger guys are more open to talking about it than a lot of the older guys - my guess is it comes from the fact that when we were kids being "queer" had such a strong stigma - we would get together and do it - but did not want to talk about the fact we did it.
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Originally Posted by KewlDewd66
Doing it in total darkness, without having seen the dude would definitely not work for me.
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Agree 100%. That is not saying the guy needs to be super hot or a body builder - but I at least need to visually know who I am having sex with. Not only for arousal purposes but also for safety issues.