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Originally Posted by KewlDewd66
I believe that this is the default narrative if there really is one.
A dude who chooses to bottom must have done some thinking, soul-searching, etc., beforehand. Bottoming involves a bit more preparation, and yeah, it pre-supposes that you'd be doing something that is not a mere male default of putting your cock in wet hole, doing some thrusting in there, hoping that the other guy will like it, and that both you and he will get your rocks off.
KD
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I didn't really do any 'soul-searching' or anything like that when I decided to be a bottom. I just watched a deep-throat compilation porn video too 'closely,' thought what it would be like to have a cock in my mouth, and the thought got so intense that I just decided to do it. I knew exactly what type of man I wanted to have sex with (older stocky/chubby men, like my first top), and I seek them out constantly when I'm in the mood to cruise. I also don't worry about the other guy not liking it, because I have yet to have a cock go soft in my mouth or ass!
I don't go
that deep with the lifestyle, so I don't know what 'bottom shaming' is.