Very true.
Being monogamous was something for M/F relationships. M/M sex play was "for fun".
But AIDS and more acceptance changed that.
Originally fooling around with a guy was "safer" because he could not get pregnant. But the fear of AIDS suddenly made random gay sex dangerous and made guys feel that they needed to settle down.
Mind you there were always other STD's guys could catch from each other - but AIDS was a game changer.
And now as society becomes more accepting of gay relationships society tries to impose some of its rules on the game.
I have known a number of happily married guys who once in a while need to get some cock - but now on many of the gay boards you will see them getting lambasted for cheating - when in the past it would have been an acceptable outlet.
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