Yup. If a dude does not know where and how to draw the line, he doesn't qualify for a daddy of any kind, sugar or not.

I landed myself a lucrative summer job before going to college. Once the term started, I found a nicely paid part-time job, too. In addition to all of this, my parents decided to generously sponsor me until I got my graduate degrees, too. I also received a pretty nice trust at the age of 19 which could have seen me through my college days without much ado, too.

So, I was fully loaded by all standards. The guys I was hooking up with for sex all belonged my peer group. A few of them admitted that hooking up with me was a bit more fun than with some other fellow college dudes. I had a comfortable place all for myself. A dude could get a meal and a couple of drinks if he needed those. I'd buy a guy I thought deserved it a dinner or two at a really nice place once in awhile. I would take a guy or two on a weekend or a back road trip along, and foot the bill. This little bit of generosity on my part looked very attractive to a few guys.

Practically all of them commented at one time or the other that all the other tops wanted their asses for some fun, too. But no one was going to offer them even the smallest act of kindness in return.

I have never had any problem in spending some of my money for the fun I was getting. Hardly anyone ever came asking for anything in particular. I gave what I wanted to give to whom I chose to give.

But I have never had a problem of drawing a line. If I wanted an escort, I would have hired one, too. Yet, I have always recognized that small acts of generosity can have very great impact on improving and maintaining a good and happy life.

KD

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