in my teen days, any chatter was mostly communicating what was wanted & the, uhm... vocalizations of if going well. Most of the time we were just relatively quiet. Later a few times with a guy doing the 'dirty talk' etc, I'd be 'uhm, what did he say?' and then some question I'd be like 'am I really supposed to stop and discuss this?' Or he'd say something that got me giggling or outright laughing. It wasn't until I saw my first porn vid (mid20's) I got the idea of how it was supposed to go. Not that I'm slow, just it hardly ever happened., but dom/sub or bdsm stuff never caught my interest.
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