I'm very verbal ("Oh yah, just like that." "Harder, slam it in harder!") and like my tops verbal too ("Like that, bitch?" "Tell me you like my cock in your ass."). When I'm suckin' I like the top to be verbal too although its hard to reply with a hard cock fillin' my mouth.

Just wondering if other bottoms are verbal too and if their tops like it and...

If tops are verbal and their bottoms like it.

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I sort-of match what my top wants - if he's verbal, I egg him on and if not, then not. If he's being silent, I try a bit of verbal and see if he picks it up. But only a bit, because I'm there to please him not to freak him out.

In arranging a meeting, I ask if he's into verbal - but I also make clear that it's optional, or that I only want him to be himself and say what's natural. I don't do acting or roleplay, only role-reality.

I do fantasize about (but have not yet encountered) extreme verbal, call it mindfuck. For example, while pounding away and with no prompting from me, in all seriousness, the top would say things like "You want my cum? Alright, look me in the eye and say that you're a faggot and you -need- my cum soaking into your guts." And then I have to look at him and say it.

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not verbal here (mom taught me not to talk with my mouth full) and from my encounters never got into it the way who I was with did it. To me it usually just sounded like a comically bad porn, and even sometimes got a few giggles from me rather than any kind of 'arousal/enhancement'. Happy with taking direction/requests, and the occasional query/response etc

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I am not verbal during sex. Although a bit of it can be fun so much of it seems to be more about domination than sex - to me we are there to give each other pleasure -

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“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” ― Oscar Wilde

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in my teen days, any chatter was mostly communicating what was wanted & the, uhm... vocalizations of if going well. Most of the time we were just relatively quiet. Later a few times with a guy doing the 'dirty talk' etc, I'd be 'uhm, what did he say?' and then some question I'd be like 'am I really supposed to stop and discuss this?' Or he'd say something that got me giggling or outright laughing. It wasn't until I saw my first porn vid (mid20's) I got the idea of how it was supposed to go. Not that I'm slow, just it hardly ever happened., but dom/sub or bdsm stuff never caught my interest.

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I LOVE verbal older dads. Now I haven’t had anal yet, but when I’m on my knees I love Verbal commands, and being verbally degraded. “Your daddies little cum slut are you?” ..”take my cum you whore”.... I get off on all of it.

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I like to tell a guy I'm fucking how beautiful his ass is, and how good I feel to be inside him. Likewise when getting blown. When I am getting fucked I like to tell him how great his dick feels, maybe some soft groans of "go deeper" or "whoa, cowboy, slow down a little". Sometimes I gurgle when I'm really into giving head, to let him know how hot he is. But I can't get into the squealing or incessant moans and "mancunt" talk I hear in porn. First, it sounds cheesy and fake, second, I don't need verbal interruption of the power sharing of good mansex.

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I am with NakedAl on this -

I love hearing the guy tell me how good I am making him feel - how much he wants it -

But the phony porn audio is almost laughable -

And if the guy ever started to insult me or put me down - calling me names - well then it is over.

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Well, I'm into a little humiliation and role-play so I like when my top gets verbal. It makes so much hotter for me. It just hits some button in me that just fires me up. What follows is a short story detailing for me what talk does to me. So, this particular ABS doesn't have booths it has two theater rooms. Just two small rooms with chairs lined up around the walls with a large HD TV showing videos, one side straight and other side gay. It's a little on the raunchy side but that makes even more fun. Especially since I found out that I have some exhibitionist tendencies. One day it was kind of slow only one cock to suck while there were several suckers that day and a couple of lookers. I went out to have a smoke and one of the lookers came out to smoke also. I struck up a conversation with him and got around to asking him what he was looking for. He said he curious and that it was all new to him and he hadn't had any luck with it all. So I explained a few things for him, like you might want us to see his package out in the open and a little eye contact might work. I then said sorry I'm losing my urge for fun today and probably going to head out. But, If someone were to talk to me the right way I might get back in the mood. He asked me to explain. So I told him I like a little role-playing and slight humiliation. "What do you mean?", he says. I tell him that I like being called slut, or cocksucker, that I'm slightly sub and liked to be told what to do. I then flicked my butt into the butt can and told him good luck and have some fun, and started walking to my car and stops me with, "hey cocksucker where do you think you're going?" I just stopped in my tracks while this little tingle started in gut and went straight to my dick. I looked up at him and he just smiled this little wicked grin and said, "get your ass back in the theater and strip and get on your knees and wait for to finish my cigarette then I'll be in to feed you a nice big load" I just nodded and said "yes sir" and went back in and stripped and got on my knees and waited. And he did not disappoint. He fucked my face for a good thirty minutes telling me what a good cocksucker I was and fed a me a massive great tasting load. Later he sucked me and I taught him how to properly suck a cock. We still get together when I get back to that city.

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I love having a guy talk nasty to me. It actually turns me on more when he's calling me a hot little cocksucker....or a slut...or a whore...he's always right with those

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I love calling my fuck buddies whores, sluts, cock suckers etc when I top. I like the same being done to me when I bottom. I love talking about his man pussy and how hard it will be getting fucked. I really do love a guy who will talk dirty whether he is on top or bottom.

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You are delicious I love being verbal. When you are on your knees sucking my cock I love that you look at me and tell me to watch you. I like taking my cock out and slap your face with it. Asking you how you like it. I love grabbing your face and and stuffing your face on my balls and crotch area. I'll tell you to open your mouth really wide and shoving my balls in your mouth. And when I cum on your face I take my tongue and lick my cum off your face and tell you to open wide while I spit my cum down your throat. Then I'll ask you to show me my cum in your mouth. I'll order you to swallow it and open your mouth and show me what a great cum swallower you are and then I'll piss down your throat. The whole time telling you what a pig you are

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I am a bottom and I am verbal. Especially when I’m being watched. I ask him if he loves the way I suck his dick. Or if I’m being watched I ask if they wish I had my lips around his dick too. I used to complain when I am sucking a guy and he just lay there quiet like a dead corpse. Hello??? Am I sucking ok. U awake?
Even when I Jack off, I make noise not only w my lube but also some verbal jerk off talk.

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I love it when there is some verbal appreciation for what is going on - from both sides. When getting sucked I make sure he knows he is doing a good job and I am enjoying it. When I am sucking I tell him how good his cock tastes and feels in my mouth.

I trying not to sound like a bad porn video "ohh ohh you are so big" but I also want to make sure he knows I love cock - and right now I am loving his.

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