i forgot to note, the 4 'outdoor' meetups, (plus 4 more stand-ups since & no suck-cesses) they were all local (my back yard or within 5 miles. I stopped going to the city zones (DC/or near the beltway) years ago since city guys were far more likely to be wasted trips no matter how good they sounded. Seems they have too many options and don't give a thought about flaking out.
I don't block standups, most of the time I never hear back from them anyway, but there have been a couple that turned out were well worth another chance., tho i did restrict conditions
I've run into a number of guys are DL and don't want to use phone because 'someone' might see the txt or call log, i get that. Only give mine with someone who sounds promising.
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