in my personal experiences over the last 50+ years, it has always been the same, no exceptions:
* TOP (oral top/anal top/side top/jack top/etc) has always been his dick gets the action.
* BOTTOM (oral bottom/anal bottom/side bottom/jack bottom/etc) services the top's dick.
* Versatile likes some mutual play (tho most seem to be primarily bottoms.)
Not to say the top or bottom were exclusive to their title role., some level of reciprocation is not uncommon... tho adding DOM to the title would tend to lean that way.
Myself, I've always been happy to just 'take it' :-)
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