These are interesting comments. Funny that the thread suddenly got resumed after 18 years. I agree that the the idea of "submissive" isn't accurate to describe sucking a dick. There used to be similar confusion about "active" and "passive." In the case of oral, the active guy is the sucker, in the case of anal the active guy is the fucker. Inserter vs insertee. They're both good.
My mood can vary from only suck to only get sucked to let's reciprocate. It wasn't too long ago that I was naked in a porn theater on my knees with a totally clothed guy with his dick sticking out of his jeans fucking my face. I had no interest in reciprocation (none offered). Another time I wanted lay down sex with reciprocation. It just depends on the mood.
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