Does anybody here have any experience with somebody who is a lot younger? I am 51, and on another man hunt site, I have hooked up with this guy who is 21. He is super hot, and the thing is, he is really into me. The sex is just incredible, and we have been fucking like rabbits. Any stories to share>?

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I have been dating across the generational divide for quite a few years now. My BF of seven years now is 17 years my junior. But yeah, 30 years is quite something.

Enjoy, give and take as much as you can.

Make sure that he has not just a lover but a friend, too.

The rest will either pan out or it won't.

Yours is to do your utmost.

KD

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We met for a hookup when he was 20 and I was 41. Several trysts later eventually turned into a friendship and love relationship. Twelve years later and counting, our relationship continues to be strong and fulfilling.

Friendship, support and trust are key. While we have many interests in common, the freedom to explore and pursue individual personal interests that may not be appealing to the other half should be encouraged and willingly accepted.

A significant age difference relationship can work with some effort from each other. Of course the raised eyebrows, sneers and jeers will be forever present and need to be dealt with appropriately.

The downside is, and we've talked about this, me dying in my 80/90's leaving him alone and having to start over again with a new relationship in his 60's. Since he will have decades more of quality life time ahead there is no easy answer to that situation.

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Great post sbstudtop!

I agree that there is a downside to it, too. Yet, no one, no one has ever signed a contract with God and no one really knows his time of departure. Rightly, you are talking in terms of likelihood and probabilities. Yet, those are very general only, well, in general terms. These may or may not impact you and your partner...

My point here is that life planning of that magnitude on the individual level cannot be really done with any satisfactory level of reliability. You live your life together as it is. You do your best and you hope for the best. You try to secure each other as much as it is reasonably possible. And you leave the rest...

KD

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Ok, we've established that a younger/older relationship can work but think the original poster was looking for something a bit juicier.

YES! The sex is awesome, very frequent, with the orgasms mind blowing and multiple. The prostrates are working overtime. Thankfully we both maintain hard-on's with decent cum shots and high libido's

Since I've always had a preference for younger men, I'm continually amazed how uninhibited they are about trying something new or sexually experienced some of them are at a relatively young age. Talk about teaching an older dog some new tricks occassionally

Some baby boomers could use a lesson or two from gen X and Y to spice things up a bit within moderation.

Now...if I could only get him over the emotional trauma of being forcibly faced fucked and choked by a baby boomer cock (not me) when he was 17-18 or so; I'd be a really happy camper with some oral sex.

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I agree with this. I have a 19-year-old sex buddy whose sucking and cum-swallowing skills are second to none. I imagine he must have had lots of experience, though he remains secretive about this when I tease him on it.

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I'd say that he happens to have his wits about him, too.

He does his shit well. And keeps it all to himself. Telling people around him that he has been slutty for quite a while even at his very young age won't make him any more desirable than he already is. Just on the contrary...

Besides, a guy who knows how to keep his stories to himself shows that he honors the promise of discretion he might have given to the guys he has been messing around with. There is no better advertising for him than that...

He knows his stuff, AND he keeps his shit straight (no pun intended)... what more would anyone want?

KD

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Yes, I realise that the original question probably wanted something a little hotter. But just to start off - and I'm doing this the wrong way round - I can only claim 17 years between me and mine, and I'm the younger.

Age has never featured in my thinking - just whether I'm attracted to a guy. I've been fucked by younger and older and I tend to go for the older.

I remember when I was finally old enough to get into a cinema where they showed very bad softcore porn. I had the best time. The films were awful, but the men were great. I learned how to suck cock properly, how to kiss and what it felt like to be sucked and have something shoved in your ass - preferably at the same time.

I went on holiday and met a guy who must have been at least 25 years older than I was. Bearing in mind that I was still youngish I was with my parents. They were oblivious to it all. Sitting on the sofa in the hotel, I'd be feeling his backside getting very excited and nobody noticed. We went out together, because my parents trusted him (and this is not about abuse - I was the one doing the chasing). We had sex in so many places it made my head spin. I can still remember reaching inside his trousers and putting my finger in his hole - the park wasn't somewhere you could go completely naked. I'd fingerfuck him while he jacked me off and himself.So much cum flying around and I can almost feel my finger(s) in there. I can also remember his voice and the things he said, which were a bit like a bad porno, but when I got two fingers in his ass he moaned and told me to 'get right in there'. So I did. Later he returned the favour, only not with his fingers. He had a really hard cock and when we were in places I could take my trousers down he used it. It was quite a while ago and the issue of taking cum up your hole didn't figure. He just kept filling me up. So much inside me and trickling out and then I discovered that bit where some of it comes out slightly later.

So for me age really isn't an issue at all, whatever bit of the generation you're coming from. A young dick or an older dick - they still perform the same functions and release the same payload. And on the plus side, the older guys aren't still trying to work out what to do with theirs, so face them with an open mouth or a nice tight hole and they know exactly what's required.

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I never thought this would ever happen, but my lover is 33 years younger than me. He is 23 and I am 56. We met online about 7 months ago, and I immediately knew that he was someone very special. After a few months of dating, I asked him to move in with me, and he did about a month ago. He just happens to like older men. He is the most wonderful person, I have ever had a relationship with.

We have sex almost every night and tell each other we love each other all the time, etc. I joke about wishing that I had met him 20 years earlier, but then, I would have been arrested if that was the case! And 20 years ago, I was married to a woman. After I divorced, I lived with a guy who was about my age for about 5 years, and that was not a very good relationship.

Now my only problem is that my monthly Viagra bill has dramatically increased !!! He is hard and horny all the time, and I do my best to take care of his every need.

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I'm a younger man and I'd say the sex is so much better with older men. No fumbling around, no uncertainties. They just take control
of my body most of the time and.. I mean REALLY take control.
I'm not very tall myself and I love how older, hairy muscle guys are just so dominant and controlling. I was with and older man a for a while, he was in his early fifties and it was real rough in bed and evetually i found out, so were his friends. Fuck, just thinking of it makes me hard. They were all trying to out do each other and they were fucking skillful at it too! Not like when i was with a few of friends my age...

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I'm not sure if this belongs here or the age and Internet thread, it's a fine line.

Lately early 20 somethings have been hitting on me without any unsolicited advances from me. Within the past week I've had 3 three requests to hook up from sister site men4sexnow. I'm not really sure if they can't find partners in their age group, their group are just being asses or they are looking for the enhanced experience an older guy can provided without the BS.

Recently a 20yo approached me to take his virginity since he lived local and was dying to try anal sex. The BF and I briefly discussed this and made the arrangements to meet.

This lean and trim young man was nervous as hell upon arriving so we took some time to chit chat and explain what would happen and what to expect keeping in mind his personal comfort and safety. He quickly calmed and off came the clothes. Bottomline is that he was determined to lose his virginity and we facilitated that desire. Afterwards, he was so full of questions about gay sex that we spent hours talking.

Although the older generation is generally frowned upon by the younger we still have a useful purpose by transferring our knowledge, skills, experiences, passions and comraderie, albeit our bodies may not be perfect anymore. This young man left excited, inquisitive and still continues to chat with us about all facets of gay life.

Perhaps he was just one of the small minority that prefer older men for their wisdom. I know that he can move on in life with something new under his belt and armed with a universe of new ideas and things to explore. I was privileged to provide that for him. We are thankful that the encounter took place as the sex between the BF and I has been the best ever.

I'm 53 and the BF is 32.

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My experience is that it depends on the state of life of both parties. I had a serious BF who was 18 when I was in my late 30s. It lasted only over a year. The main problem was he was still a student and could not understand the responsibilities of a working adult. My present BF of 6 years already had working experience when we met (he was in his mid-20s) In many ways we are now considered "equals", though initially he depended much more on me for advice on worldly matters.

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As a middle aged man who happens to prefer the company of younger men, the Generation Y,Z group do have amazing skills. How and where they acquired the requisite practice to develop them is irrelevant. Most of the young men do have talent and that's amazing for me.

I've noticed that the younger generation is willing to experiment more and not bashful about asking for exactly what they want. Perhaps this is an offshoot of the social tolerance of all races, genders and sexuality within current secondary education teaching.

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I approve profiles here all the time from guys who are 18 or 19. Especially for our sister site, Adopt a Sex Pig, I am amazed at how much sexual knowledge and skill these young men often claim to have! I am not sure I even knew men could anally fuck until I was about 20 (don't worry; I made up for it!) and some of these guys are keen to be fisted or play watersports at their lovely young age. Bravo for the sexual revolution!!

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That's the real change that has come about with the internet. Where as when I grew up we fumbled and learned and heard snide comments that we then tried to figure out what was real and what was fake - what would be fun and what was just a rumor...

Now they can just come on line and get real advice. Some may be a bit to far for my tastes - and maybe some of the kids may be hearing about some things to young - but it would have been wonderful to have been able to benefit from others.

There was something fun and exciting about figuring out for ourselves - but learning on line also could have saved a lot of stress I put myself through dealing with sexual issues growing up.

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