[bjseeker69]

When your bi and can only hook up when away from home (arh married one here) what are the best 'signs' that you can leave that say 'am looking and want COCK!' I have to keep straight around co-workers etc and Its like impossible to know if other guys are acting straight wishing they could get bjs. So does anybody have any tested non verbal clues or signs that only gay or other active bi dudes would keep up on?

[sukmeoff2]

My situation is similar, to get my kicks I frequent bookstores with gloryholes. I usually get all the anonymous cock I can handle. The only folks who see me are other regulars doing the same thing. Should anyone get to familar I vary my hours of visitaion.

[Totem]

Are you at your favorite cruisy park/rest area/adult book store?

Eye contact.

Look that dude straight in the eye. If he looks away, he's not interested. If he looks right back at you, that's a starting point.

Now, are you looking at him and he's looking at you? Reach down real quickly and brush your hand against your crotch. That's an open-ended signal. Were you grabbing your dick? Or were you making a quick adjustment?

If you did the dick thing and he's still looking ... maybe you could reach down and give it a little extra squeeze.

Here are some other things I've noticed men doing at public places.

1) A guy was sitting there, doing the crossword puzzle. Just minding his own business, right? Except he was sucking on the end of his pencil and running the tip of his tongue over the eraser. He was looking for man-meat.
I walked up to him and said "I sure wish I was getting the same attention as that pencil." The next thing you know, we're hooked up.

2) A variation on the above theme is a guy who gives his fingers or his thumb a quick blow-job while making eye contact.

3) On a really beautiful day, I had a guy walk up to me and say "It's a great day to do something indoors."
THAT was a nice invitation.

There are others. Guys??

[Keith]

I've often thought maybe CFS could create something that might help identify Cruisers to each other. Maybe a t-shirt with a discreet slogan or a bumper sticker or something. We have something online right now for sale that guys can wear, though it rarely is purchased. Maybe it isn't discreet enough? Or maybe this is just is a bad idea for our specific purposes? I don't know the answer, obviously. But I do know some persons who like some sexual practices have succeeded in using code so that others could spot them in a crowd.

[CapitalUncut]

We used to have red and yellow sweater days at college, and then there are the ubiquitous hankies. I think the CFS tshirts are a bit too bold for many guys, especially those who live in places where extreme discretion is still a necessity. Something less obvious is needed that those who don't get it wouldn't be any the wiser. Maybe something along the lines of this?

[Keith]

Actually just the simple letters CFS might do the trick. Those 'in the know' would likely recognize those letters for their meaning to other cruisers.