I make arrangements and travel to meet men I meet on the internet. Over 50% are no showes, over 50%. They all seem to have good reasons, but some don't. Do others have this problem? I am particularly disappointed when I go to the effort to get a room, as I always have to travel. Anyway, I get a room, shower and get horny as hell then nothing. If I have a cell No. I get a voice mail box. Later I get an I am sorry but I had to ________ and couldn't make it.

Let me know if you have problems like this and how to make sure I don't get stood up as much.

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Thanx to the guys who have emailed me on this. I appreciate the replies. I can appreciate some, if not all of the reasons. What I have trouble with is the sheer number of no showes. Like I said, over 50 % and last 5 or 6 have all been that way. I did meet one guy from here. That was good and still emailing with others..... Hope it all workes out.

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I think it has to do with seizing the moment. We contact one another, create a bond. But when it comes to meeting which is much later in most cases we are not in the mood so we don't show. I hate it as much as you but it's the way our system works. That's what comes from having relationships online. It's easy to cancel and/or no show when there isn't a face to connect to. It sucks, we've all been there. I guess it's important that we don't take it personal.

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"I guess it's important that we don't take it personal."
There's your problem.
Fact is, it's still a human being on the other end of those computer connections, and it's indicative of the lack of simple respect for people in today's society
It takes but a minute to simply email someone, for example, that you can't make it...in ADVANCE. Not wait until the last minute (or not at all). But people think of themselves only, for the most part (not everyone). And those who have been stood up before probably think, "it's been done to me, so no big deal if I don't show up".

It's just the lack of courtesy these days. Simple as that. I've had calls or emails in advance where they guy had to cancel, and that's the way it should be. Those are the courteous men, even if it's a bogus reason....they still had the courtesy to say something.
Unless you die ot have a car accident or beome hospitalized, there is no excuse. And face it, people don't like to hear that these days. They hate responsibilty. They hate to grow up.

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When you get all horned up & want to have Homosex, go to your local bath houses & have all the sex you want with lots of Queer Guys.

All of them are there for the same reason. They want Queer Sex!

END OF STORY !

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