CL in DC is pretty much an exercise in futility if looking to connect with under-40s. I only bother with ads from guys 40s to early-60s. Not entirely without time wasters, but mostly legit. Usually way better sex, too.

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It's funny the CL in Los Angeles is the same with most guys being 40 to 60.... but the problem is all the ads by them say they are only looking for guys under 30!

It is like people forget that one day they will be older too...

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Yeah, Lala is like that...over-50s who are only interested in under-30, only because they are in denial about themselves. DC certainly is represented on that "50+ Circuit Boi Syndrome" bus. But, at least here there are considerably more guys who are aren't as caught up in age hysteria like in California or other twink-meccas.

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Personally not interested in the under 50 crowd, way too much drama and not enough action.

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I am very much into younger guys (mid-20's). And have been so for a while now. Not complaining or anythin'...

But got to agree... Dudes ARE developing a totally unhealthy drama streak, and a few are action averse, too.

I have recently met this 25+ gym toned, masc., college guy. Well, he was hanging on the Grindr (probably hoping to find mates for his next Bible reading class...) the other day, when a dude txted him and offered him sex!!! Wow! He also sent him some very 'indecent' pictures that the young guy did not want to see in the first place.

Well, I obviously recommended counseling. The dude must have been traumatized after this experience??? It doesn't get any dumber than this, does it?

KD

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I can't imagine what could be considered "indecent" on a gay dating / hookup app!

You look at that is considered common / normal and the idea of something that would be shocking is a bit scary!

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Today I had awesome luck on CL. I was super horny to suck cock, and was having no luck getting attention (plus, everybody else on that site was looking for the same damn thing!). There was a new ad for a guy looking for a cocksucker 25 miles away, so I responded and got an email back from him, asking where I was; he was a little leery of me traveling so far. We went back & forth a bit, and finally we had an arrangement, so I hopped in my car and drove down to see him. He was discreet (has a gf...), black/white mix, 15 years younger than me. After a beer and hanging out on a deck looking at the view (really nice), we went back in his condo and he dropped trou. I was on his big, beautiful dick for at least 30-40 minutes. He kept wondering if I was getting tired, and I said "no!", so he just enjoyed my sucking, and when he decided he wanted to come, he told me what to do to make that happen. It was fucking awesome. After a little rest, I left, and was going out for a bite, when I realized I left my cap there. I emailed him about it and didn't hear back for a while. I ate dinner not far away, then got an email confirming I left it. So, I went back, and he said I could come up for another beer. As I'm sitting there on his couch watching TV with a glass of wine, he stood up, showing a huge tent in his shorts, and dropped them again. I got to blow his rock hard dick for a second time, and it was no less great! I think I'll be back at his place in the future, cuz he really liked the way I sucked him off, and my stamina, and I really like his dick. This is the fucking CL jackpot, IMHO.

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CONGRATULATIONS!

I wish I could find that sort of deal - it would be worth the drive!

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My first time sucking cock, and being a bottom, was with a trucker I met through Craigslist. I attempted to meet more tops through craigslist, but the people there are stupid. They didn't read the ad thoroughly, so I had to ignore several emails.

Now I just stick to the local adult theater next to the truck stop if I'm in the mood for cock.

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Weekend boy -

You were very lucky your first time on CL worked out that well - with most websites the vast majority are flakes or "not as advertised" and most of the hook ups never seem to work out.

That is the value of "in person" meetings - like you mention about the adult theater....

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I finally got bold enough to try Craig's list.
After a few back and forth emails I made arrangements to meet a cocksucker.
I met at a hotel, place had no heat so it was ice cold.
We chatted a while and then he says he's waiting for another.
That made me real nervous so I stayed dressed until I could check this other guy out.
15 minutes later he shows up and strips off his pants almost before the door closes. Holy crap, this guy is a pro.
The cocksucker asks me to strip, I do and the visitor and I lay down on the bed.
The cocksucker was portly but could deep throat like no one else.
He took turns sucking us off until I was ready to nut.
Just as I was cumming he pulled his mouth off my cock and left me hanging, no hand or nothing.
My new friend was right behind with the same situation, no finish.
When we were done we got dressed and shot the shit.
The new guy does this all the time, on the down low of course.
He went on to tell me how much he likes getting fucked bareback and how he keeps this all from his wife.
All in all a strange night, one I probably won't repeat.

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Traunnut -

Don't get discouraged - most guys will not leave you hanging just as you are about to cum - they may not all swallow - but they will at least use their hand!

As for the other guy that likes doing it with strangers bareback - that is the type of guy you have to be real careful with.

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I got a weird vibe from him.

I couldn't believe how quick he stripped in front of two strangers.
We could have been out for queer bashing or robbery.
He didn't know.
I guess the old saw about not letting the little head do the thinking applies

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I guess, some of us here have some personal experience with the CL. On an individual level, such experience is invariably anecdotal only. Once you start crowding the personal stories, you start wondering if there is a pattern of some kind emerging or not. I used to use CL before the proximity apps took over. And, yup, quite a few encounters were kinda edgy. Fortunately, nothing bad has ever come out of any of those encounters, but the usual, 'let's first meet in public' step almost never happened. It was really about the dudes who wanted sex without much ado, DL, with as few words as possible, and pretty much according to the preset play. I truly enjoyed some of the arrangements I had with several dudes at different times. But I can see that the things could have really gone very wrong, too. A degree of risk, however, is inherent. KD

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I've had pretty good luck with occasional CL hookups. Most of the time if it dosen't work it is because of flakes who will get cold feet or are just not hot in some way... One of the hottest things I ever did with a guy was a CL hookup here where the guy was visiting for work and in a hotel room wanting to suck cock. I went over, tapped on the door and this big burly white guy wearing jeans but no shirt opens the door a little to let me in.. On the bed was a black guy, a little chubby, laying on his back with feet on the floor, naked and with a HARD cock... the host goes back over to the bed, kneels between the black guy's legs and goes back to sucking his cock... This looked really hot and I started to get hard in seconds, stripped off and started stroking...I told the host I wanted a little of that treatment for myself, sat down on the bed next to the black guy and he moved over and started sucking on my big cock but stopped after less than a minute, saying as the black guy got there first, he would finish him off first... Well I was looking at the hosts face and the black guy's cock and the host asked me if I wanted to try it...I changed positions with the host, now I was with knees on the floor with this black cock in front of my face... I started licking and sucking and deepthroated the guy a couple times, then stopped... The host got back into position and said something that he had been sucking the black guy for a while and he hadn't cum so why don't I stick my cock in his mouth.. I moved up besides the black guy's face, the host goes back to sucking and I put my cock in his face and he started licking and trying to suck me.. Like he had never had a man's cock in his mouth before.. The black guy gets the head of my cock in his mouth then starts moaning and the host who was sucking him moans too and I know the black guy was cumming, and cumming. We change positions and the host guy opens his mouth to show it FULL of spunk, swallowed it, and said he came a LOT... By now I was horny as hell and wanted him to finish me off too. The host does and lays on his back on the bed and wants me to straddle him which I was a little hesitant because I was thinking I would have my cock gouged by his teeth. I straddled him, started getting sucked, moved up to have the guy lick my balls and under my balls, kinda like a girl face sitting but the guy wouldn't lick my ass.. I put my cock back in his mouth and let him suck.. By now the host had his cock out of the jeans and was jerking... his cock was enormously thick but not long and I started actually pumping his mouth and started to spunk and spunk and spunk.. The guy came all over his belly at the same time... Washed my dick off and left....

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