Love the brown skin...
 

It's been a while since I posted to this thread...but it keeps going on and on.

Everyone has their own methods, and things they are comfortable with, so a single suggestion may not work for all. I spent hours on gay.com and had dates set up in Mexico City and Cuernavaca. The guy in Mexico City was very nice and very nice to me...but there wasn't a connection. I think he was disappointed, but what can I do?

In Cuernavaca, I was the one who was disappointed. He just didn't show up at all!

But let me tell you I wasn't disappointed for long! I found dates just sitting on a bench in the zocalo. I have been told I'm easy on the eyes, but I'm also no stud...but it didn't matter. As I sat there reading my spanish/english dictionary, I noticed a guy keeping an eye on me...and I in turn, kept an eye on him. Long story short, we had a very good time together over the next few weeks during my stay.

I had plenty of sex with him and other guys in Cuernavaca, so I wasn't worried about finding anyone new back in Mexico City on my way out of the country. But I spent my last day doing some shopping and siteseeing. At the end of the day I took everything back to my room and packed it away so I would be ready in the morning. But it was still early...about 5 p.m....so I walked out of my hotel in the Zona Rosa...walked across the street and before I had spent 2 minutes window shopping, I felt a pair of eyes that seemed to be aimlessly window shopping near me.

Again, long story short, he spent the night with me, and believe me I had no problem sleeping on the plane the next day.

I would not have believed it a few years ago, but I now believe that just keeping your eyes open, acknowledging a glance, smiling back, making it obvious that you are interested with nothing more than body language or a quick touch to your crotch while you look at him.

You don't have to be overt or super suave. Just be friendly and willing to engage someone. Even stumbling over mangled spanish can turn into a romantic encounter if you don't shy away from the opportunity.

I am planning on continuing my exploits in Mexico. I spend a lot of time in Baja and encourage anyone who wants to contact me to please feel free. Email rather than the CFS private mail works better for me. I love to share information about my area of Baja.

I also want to explore Costa Rica...I hear it's great and would love to hear from you about that as well. I have posted a message in the Central America section of CFS.

Thanks to all for your posts!

Ken

Anybody had experience with the mexican boys around AlGedonas near Yuma?

I am down that way once in awhile and sure would like to hook up with some of those cuties.

Mexico City
 

Hey all,

What a great thread! I just got back from Mexico City last week and wow what a huge city with tons of hot Mexicans. Some dark-skinned chaparritos that a lot of us like but also many european looking guys.
This trip was with my father and we only had a few days to do a lot of things so I wasn't able to 'have fun' if you know what I mean. A guy did follow me into the bathroom in a fancy restaurant and then later in front of my Dad offered to buy me a drink. I wanted him and it was painful to say no to such a delicious opportunity.
Mexico is a delightful country and any gay man should go there to enjoy not only the culture, but the most beautiful men in the world.

Zman

run for the border
 

Hate to beat a dead horse, but this thread is too good to let die. I just re-read the whole thing... including my own. Fun...got the juices flowing. Yep, went to Reynosa and NL a few weeks ago... definitely plenty of stuff on the streets.. In Reynosa... about 15.. even a couple of cute trannies. What is bothersome though, is there is heavy police prescence. I saw them talking to the trannies..... and then later..... the trannies were still there, so not sure what transpired. I just get very nervous when they are out... dont feel like getting the shakedown.
The same in NL(nuevo laredo)... mucho policia.. but many possibilities. I think the economy of mexico is continuing to degrade,which helps .... hate to say it.... increase the numbers of prospects on the street. I did not partake.... and have not for awhile... nothing has grabbed my attention...or the time was not right.... but... it will...
Several of the regs promised some trip reports above in their posts.... where are they? I also discovered bilatino.com which had some posts about meeting day laborers in big ciites near the border. So.... drove around in san antonio.... yep... they are there....Saw a couple of potentials... but didnt do more than just look. It seemed hard to seperate out the cute young ones from the older, more desperate job seekers. I do need a few things done.... so may get one for a real job.... and see what happens.
Lets see some stories!

I really enjoyed this thread, and especially loved the pics. Never thought of asking to take pics, but will bring my camera with me next time I go to Puerto Vallarta.
I've had very good luck there with free sex, and also picking up guys who want a little extra $$. If you are there, I highly recommend a masseuse named Victor who walks the beach, near blue chairs and approaches people asking them if they want massage. He charges about 600-700 pesos for massage and extra and depending on how he's feeling can give you a discount.

He has one of the fattest dicks I've ever seen. It's hard to get the whole thing in your mouth. Next time I'm down there, I'm going to ask him if I can take some pics to help him advertise.

I've also found boys near the rocky cliff at the end of the beach. One guy came up and sat behind me as I was watching the sunset. He asked me several questions and before I knew it he had his big brown dick out for me to inspect. It looked really good. I took him back to my place and sucked him three times (I had some straight videos for him to watch, so he was really horny). I gave him about 300 pesos (100 per shot). Picked up another cute boy with a big dick a few days later and also ended up giving him about 300. I guess more than what you pay in a border town, but it feels a lot safer to me.

$$$$$
 

You know, in all my Mexican experiences I have found it rare that a guy will ask for money for sex. (Except for obvious hustlers.) He may hint about money, or food, or needing something, and I am never surprised when it happens.

And of course, they are never surprised when it is offered!

But I try to find a way to give him a gift, in addition to paying for any food or drinks we consume. I may give him $20 when I know he only needs $2 for a taxi...or if I find out he has a kid, I'll suggest he buy something for the child.

I can't remember them ever counting the money in front of me. Most of the time I slipped in their pocket while saying goodbye.

Maybe I am just lucky...maybe it is my personality. I just really want to preserve their dignity...and mine.

Custom and our economic advantage makes it a very commonly accepted practice. I avoid hustlers because if it is their business, the chances are higher that they will give you an unintended souvineer like an STD to take home with you.

Anyway..just another two centavos to keep the conversation alive.

Re: $$$$$
 

It's a good question. Personally, I don't think it is undignified for him or me to exchange $$. I know that we may think we're so hot that we shouldn't have to pay for sex. But in dealing with people who are much less fortunate, who have a lot to offer, I don't think it is any different than any other economic transaction. I don't see how using someone for a quick free fuck is any more dignified than giving them $20 or a bit more.

As far as STDs, we all should be having safe sex. I tend to think it may be the other way around - horny gringos taking advantage of desperate Mexican boys who don't know about safe sex. We may be leaving more behind than just our footprints - be safe guys!:D

Re: Why Mexican Men are so willing...
 

This sounds hot and I've often fantasized about helping out the day laborers. The message board on bilatinmen is down, so Critico, or anyone else, can you share some tips on picking these guys up for sex? I'd especially like to know how you get the ones you want, rather than the ones who can run to your car the fastest. Also, what is a fair compensation?

Just wanted to bump this thread up to the top so that those who have never seen some of the photos of these hot Mexican guys would have the opportunity.

Brownsville/Matamoros
 

Any new info on this area? What effect are the minutemen having on the bordertowns?

I love Mexico...and this thread!
 

Actually, I love Latins! Brown skin, specially smooth brown skin just does it for me...and make the most of my blonde hair and blue eyes.

Check out http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/Mexico-Gay/ for some good information.

There is also notices for parties and gatherings posted there.

There is so much good information in this thread, I recommend you read it all the way through for a great tutorial on how to get involved and enjoy Mexico and Mexican Men.

Some groups are filled with queens talking about how afraid they are to visit Mexico...how if the cops don't rob them, they fuck 'em. I think most of the old stories are just that...old stories.

To be sure bad things can and do still happen...but I think you can safely visit Mexico if you act sensibly. Read the recommendations you find here and other places and enjoy!

I keep hearing great things about Merida and am wondering if anyone has any good news about this area.

K

:)