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5th October 2002, 11:34 AM
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Just got back from visit to Nuevo Laredo, Mexico , which is just across from Laredo , Texas. Basically a re-hash of previous info, just an update. In about ten blocks on the right is a square...last friday night, there were about 6-8 young men hanging out, usually on the street paralleling Ave Guerrero , the main drag. The guys could see i was interested, and were waving and calling out. I dont particularly like this behavior as it calls attention to you and it indicates a certain degree of "hardness" in a mercenary way. I prefer a more subtle approach, so kept driving. Another block down , toward the bridge, see a young man walking, got eye contact, pulled over. In a few seconds he, was in the car. Said he was 19 and from Monterrey , Mexico... and was looking to get back home. So i asked him, what he was looking for...... he took this to mean.."how much". Mavica, this will make you happy, he said 15 dollars. Ok! Thats my kinda price. Well, had a motel nearby... called Villa del Monte, american style, so has a bit of privacy in your comings and goings. My car tho, is pretty distinctive, so when i drive in , the guard runs over and wants to help me park..... I wave him off... dont need help, dont want the attention. Anyway, the young dude was very accomodating, affectionate........ took a shower first....so was clean......and allowed pics. If you guys want, can post a pic of him. Let me know. True to his word, wanted 15, did not ask for more.....just wanted a ride back to where i picked him up..... told him i was tired, so gave him five more for a cab. He said "buena suerte" and was out the door..... Cool.
The main square also had a few dudes hanging out.... but there seems to be some sort of anti-narc push, and there were many soldiers with bullet proof vests, and machine guns on virtually every corner. Needless to say, i did not drive around the square too many times...... after the third circuit, one of those dudes may wanna talk to me........i dont think so! C'mon.......lets hear some reports, i doubt i am the only guy hitting the borders..... I would like to hear about Matomoros and Monterrey...... a city of four mill........by my math......that means two million men........two million women......is that right?       |
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15th October 2002, 04:05 PM
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Will post a pic or two every couple days or so..... this board needs some liven ing up! Anyone who has made a trip to mexico needs to write a little story or two with a tidbit of info. That is what will make this board a valuble tool.....it will narrow your trips out of this country,....save you money, time, and double your fun. So....lets all contribute! I have taken many out of country trips, but due to constraints of traveling companions, time, etc... could not always partake... I have some upcoming events tho... so stay posted.... will add some pics tonite..... pressed for time right now.
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15th October 2002, 05:32 PM
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Thanks for the story and the info. I agree about everyone contributing, so I posted a story of mine.
Read, enjoy, post! 
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Making the board interesting
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19th October 2002, 11:26 PM
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Another 20 yr old.....picked up in first square on right side of avenida Guerrero, Nuevo Laredo , Mex.
Would like some input here. I would not think of going to a city park on a saturday afternoon in texas and approach a young man, and expect to walk away with an "adventure". Yet... in Mexico, i feel it is virtually guaranteed, the proverbial fish in a barrel. What is it? Poverty? Attitude ? Mine, theirs? Different cultural attitude? It seems to me, this is the picture almost anywhere in the world....except the USA(possible exceptions of severely repressive muslim regimes). Brazil, Thailand, Dom Repub, etc. No prob.... any ideas? While we are on the subject, what is everyones favorite destinatin for sampling the local talent? Brazil? |
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20th October 2002, 05:09 PM
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merewanna, I too have wondered and thought what it is about men in Mexico.
For those who still believe it's all macho hetero sex south of the border, get ready for a shock. While some men are completely hetero, it is "not uncommon," and "close to common" for young Mexican men to participate in m2m sex almost as a rite of passage. I wont' begin to understand or explain the psychology of it, but there are several practical reasons:  Most live at home, and with large families. There is not enough privacy to jack-off much less bring someone home for sex.Even if they do have the time and means to have a girlfriend, they have little dinero to date, entertain, and certainly none to rent a hotel room.  Hey, when you are young, sex is always on your mind!Along comes someone who has the desire and place to offer a young man sex, and he sees no reason to say no.  And, culturally, it is expected that if you are older and have more money, you will share some if it without being asked. Over time it has become expected that you demonstrate some generosity.They usually get a shower, meal and/or drinks, clean place to sleep and/or have sex, usually without worry of being caught by police. Throw in some cash or buy them something they need, and they've had a good day. Some go on to live a hetero life and never look back. Some are just gay and either live as a gay man, or stay in the closet. Same on both sides of the border. Because there are indeed many gay Mexicans I try to treat each with as much respect as I can. I don't like the idea of crossing this "fine-line" and having it be more like prostitution. It is not easy for them to be gay in Mexico, and the economics make it even more difficult to be so. I love the naturalness they usually exhibit. There is little or no false inhibition or modesty. It seems a very healthy attitude toward sex, probably because they don't have any Puritans in their background. Cruising is different in Mexico. It is not necessarily easier, but it is easier to make eye-contact and catch on to the routine. Eye-contact, smile, quick brush or rub of your crotch, smile, glance at their crotch, smile, a simple invitation, and maybe...Sexo! Grab your crotch and look at another guy's crotch in the states and you may get a dirty look or worse. Gosh, I love Mexico!
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26th October 2002, 01:23 AM
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Mavica, when i click on mexico...... there is a message at the top that says... tips for attaching a pic. Basically, you have to have pics on the hard drive, hit browse, it will up load the pic, then post it. It took me a try or two, and the pic has to be about 3X4 inches... pretty straight for ward.... Now for the info.. was in reynosa last week-end. Drove around a lot. There were several young men sitting on benches in the zocalo... and there is a street down the hill with several more on the corners. I guess i saw about 10-12 avail....but nothing grabbed me. I tend to go for the younger types, who dont appear to be rough or hardend, so to speak. Also, the last run thru the area, there were some street police walking... and they were talking to the last two guys i saw.....evidently, shaking em down or whatever. So i drove by... they had seen me cruising the area, so the cops waved at me as i drove by...... i pretended not to see them..... any cop in mexico who is on foot, trying to wave me down..... i dont see em.. i quickly vacated the area. Headed to my hotel.... but was thirsty, so stopped at a .....believe it or not...a 7-11. There were 4-5 young men hanging out, and a young guy.... appeared about 18, runs up and starts washing my window...... a common way for young people to make money in mexico . I asked him to go in and buy me some water... and bring it out. He did. I had given him 3 dollars for the water.. he tried to give me change... and i waved it off. Then........ i asked in spanish... 'quieres mas dinero?"... "Si". Ok....encontrarme dos quadras alli"... y hablamos.. In other words... meet me two blocks down, over there and we will talk.. Sure enough, he did.... Then , of course, asked him his name... told him he was handsome... and if he wanted to go for a ride... he appeared a bit confused..... this was prob new to him.... so i laid it out.... show me your dick..i give you twenty dolllars.... again, he hesitated...then... came around and jumped in.. I said, ,, i have a hotel nearby... do you want to come over... he said no....... this was obviously new to him... so .. ok... i said, i want to find a dark , private place...... he said.... drive ahead... we went a few blocks, turned... found a dark street, i parked turned off the light...... and looked at him. To his credit, he slid down his pants...... boom.... had a nice.. BIG.... hard on! This was his first time, but he was taking to it well. So i leaned over and started working on it.....took him awhile... but he did it. Then... he looked at me, grinned and started jacking it... He wanted to go again! Yeah!.... it was his first time.....but getting into it!. I watched him as he brought it to conclusion again... which i just had to taste...mmm . True story.... i promise. I then drove him back.. near the 7-11, gave him his twenty, let him out.... and went on my way. Just goes to show you... the night is not over till the fat lady sings.... or the window washer needs a
few bucks... now, that was mexico..... i had an experience tonite that i still cant believe.. can't reveal all tho.... you guys need something to look forward to. oh.... by the way.....here is his pic.... true story.... viva mexico! |
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26th October 2002, 01:24 PM
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Keep the stories and pictures coming!
I'm in Japan right now and unfortunately there aren't any good stories happening here. I've travelled in Mexico and Central America though and I've had a few fun cruising encounters that I'll post about sometime. |
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26th October 2002, 01:37 PM
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Watchawaitin for? No stories from Japan? Por que no? Throw a quick story in.... if we all contribute, it will be so much more fun and valuble. I am not the only one with some stories. This is supposed to be about Mexico, but if you have some info about another country, post it there......but let us know its there so one can go read it if interested. I am still hoping for some Monterrey info. I may go there in November......if so, will def have a little info
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