I run an ad here offering oral. Some guys ask also for rimming, and if I really like them, they are really clean, etc. etc. I do this. But I don't think I do it right. I lick all around, but can't get my tongue stiff enough to penetrate. So my question is simple. Would some of you guys who get rimmed tell me what about it you like the most, and how does one provide this?

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I don't think it is required that ALL rimjobs involve penetration. Seems to me that lots of guys are happy just to have their ass eaten... It also seems to me that the large majority of guys who rim me don't actually get inside, either. Nor is it necessary. A bit of stimulation to the anus with the tongue is nice enough, at least in my book.

A tongue isn't always long enough or shaped properly to penetrate a guy's ass. And all tongues are different, to a degree. Some are short and squat, some are long and pointed, some have round, blunt ends, etc. Logistically speaking, when your face is pressed against a guy's ass, it may not always be possible to get the right angle or be deep enough between his cheeks to get inside. Clearly, ass cheeks will vary, too!

The best thing you can do is to just keep doing it, if you and the other guy enjoy it. The more you do it and the more you practice, the better you'll get. And there's no reason why you can't ASK the guy what feels best to him, if the circumstance provides enough comfort level for you to do so. Not everyone wants to be rimmed in quite the same way, I'm sure.

I've had guys who CAN get a LITTLE bit inside, I've had guys who can't do much more than lick around. I've had some who kind of nibble the whole area -- done gently, this is OK; done roughly, it isn't fun at all.

It seems that lately, at least over the last two years, more and more guys are asking if they can rim me as well as suck me. Gay porn at work here, telling us once again that this is the formula to follow? Or more likely, just another aspect of sex that men enjoy. For me, I'm fine with it, but it doesn't usually keep me hard. This is not to say that I don't enjoy it, but I sure don't require it. If a guy wants to do this, I never turn him down, as long as my dick gets plenty of attention, too. Yeah, it feels great, but I don't live for it.

Just keep doing what you enjoy and what the other guy enjoys. Don't worry about HAVING to do it any certain way. If he asks for something, give it a shot. Try another angle. If he seems satisfied, probably you're doing a good job as it is.

Since you didn't ask about potential hazards that might be involved, no need to get into that now -- just use common sense. There's good info from Doctor Danny already posted here about medical risks involved with rimming; check it out.

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My tongue seems to be one of my better trademarks. For the most part, I seem to be able to penetrate a guy's ass some. I love rimming - to me, it gets the ass ready for a fuck. I have rimmed a lot of guys who do not like getting rimmed but they enjoy it from me. What matters is - if you enjoy rimming & have no qualms about it - the person you are rimming should enjoy it as well.

I do not get fucked & I get rimmed every so often. I have met a handful of guys that I enjoy getting rimmed from, but for the most part - it does nothing to me.

I usually start off slow & let the ass relax some. I can usually spread the cheeks some & then I am able to enter the ass some. Just practice & work those tongue muscles some

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I've only been rimmed once, but I loved it. He only rimmed the outside and it was great. Truthfully, that's all I'd want. It felt amazing as it was, and I don't need the penetration.

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A good rimmer is usually a good top. My idea of a good top really takes charge and does the 1 2 3 4 tango in paris ( watch that hot famous scene and learn )

1. push me down - if he turns me on, I'll stay down and let him take charge.

2. the finger test - basically he's testing the tightness of my mancunt. If it's acceptable, he will pay the price of admission next.

3. the price of admission - a good rim. He'll show that he understands the needs of a bottom by kissing his butt. He licks, he flicks, he wiggles, he penetrates and he smells it just like the way most male animals do when courting the females.

4. he claims his prize. He gets to fuck me, another male.

I do rim the men that I want to fuck too. But sometimes I stop at 2 because his ass don't smell good. Some asses smell sweet and clean. I could swear it smells as sweet as perfume. For those who think that all ass smell like shit, you have to try this to believe it. A clean ass will secrete a protective mucus inside that's fresh and sweet smelling. That turns me wild.

Does anybody agree with what I'm saying here or is that all my special imagination?

But some ass do smell like shit if it's not properly cleaned. That turns me off and all he gets will be a handjob instead.

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I have a regular bottom who I eat and eat and eat.His hole is so fucking delicious,I totally forget about pussy.It is just hot,tastless man flesh with that internal aroma that makes my cock drip.
I eat him open slowly,then I fuck a sweet load into him.
Then I eat him again,tasting my own man juice. I can do it maybe 3 times in a coule hours.
You are right though,when the ass smells and tastes right,it's rutting time.
This kid was born to get fucked.

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You have to work on a guys hole and after awhile it opens up enough to get your tounge in his hole.Theres nothing better then eating out a guy hole.

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Sometimes there is nothing better than chowing down on a hot pink hole.......sometimes it's even better if the hole is a little ripe, but those times are far and few between. I have a buddy who have the best looking ass I"ve seen and his hole tastes so sweet. I munch on it for a long time. I mean it take a minte to get the hole to open up to where you can penetrate, but it gets both of us so worked up that the fucking is incredible.......he is literally begging me to implale him......Rimming is one of my favorite things....

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I have not been involved with a lot of rimming, give or receive.
giving, only when requested, and it had to be clean. I have the short-reach type tongue, so penetration didn't really happen much. But they seemed to really enjoy the licking, etc.
These days I'm a total btm, but I do like seeing & fondling a really nice ass, often finger while giving head, etc. & will rim when asked.

Receiving, I usually enjoyed it but I've had a couple guys who like to really spread the cheeks out hard, stretching the skin, to the point it's really uncomfortable. Aside from that, I like it, especially as a precursor to being fucked. Its a nice way of relaxing my hole for me, and preferred to just fingering it.
Twice I got rimmed after being fucked and it was kinda awesome.

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Rimming is one of those things I never believed was real until I saw gay porn. When I first started fooling around we knew guys fucked and sucked - but rimming? Oh no - that must be made up!

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I never saw it on porn back then, never even saw 'gay porn' back then. 1st time the subject was broached, my response was "you're kidding, right?!" lol

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From my experience, rimming feels great when it's done to you. If the guy you're with is clean it's great to do it to him, especially if you enjoy pleasing another guy. Rimming another guy also makes it a little easier to fuck him, another plus.

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I know what you mean - it was total disbelief at first that anyone could do that! I mean I was still trying to fully grasp the idea of butt fucking!

I was lucky that there was one "adults only" book store that was VERY lax on checking the age id's of customers. And it was in a college town so there was a selection of gay materials and in the "video preview" booths there were gay movies - so that is where I first saw it. Even in gay porn it was not common then - but when I saw the guy bend over and his partner put his face there all I could think is "that CAN'T be real!"

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