I'm glad I am not the only one who remembers SNL at it's prime! And I do believe that was where I learned the word too, when they were making a connection to the vulva, right?

I was in Miami last week and made mention of this thread to a guy I was talking to in one of the adult theaters. He suggested Baby Oragel on the head of a cock or dildo to slightly numb the back of the throat to get over the the gagging. I haven't tried it yet, but along that same line I wonder if Baby Oragel on the head of a cock would allow the guy to go a lot longer? Just wondering...

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It's killing me that I can't remember the details to the uvula sketch. It was Chevy Chase, Gilda Radner and Lorraine Newman. Chase was a doc, educating the girls about the uvula. I think.

This sketch is featured on the SNL album -- back in the days when an album was made of vinyl. I have this record, in fact, though it's back home in Florida so I have no access to it right now. Sure wish I did. It's just a collection of various sketches that play well as dialogue and don't rely on visuals so much.

A Google search will bring up the album in question, with "Uvula" as a track title, but I wasn't able to find the script for the sketch anywhere.

As for OraGel -- we rather recently discussed this, too. I can't recall the title of the post, though. Was it "OraGel," perhaps?

I recall the post because it showed up on the boards a day or two AFTER I was home alone, bored and horny -- and I smeared some OraGel on my dick while jerking off just to see if it did anything worth repeating.

My own opinion was no, it wasn't anything special. It didn't make me feel as if I could last longer. But in all honesty, I can last a REALLY long time so I am probably not the best test subject for this little experiment.

It was OK... there was a little bit of numbing action, but nothing remarkable. Past experiences with numbing creams sold as adult novelties were better. The "official" numbing creams seem stronger to me.

I also used the adult version of OraGel -- I'll assume the Baby OraGel is much less potent.

I have no idea if numbing creams and gels would help with the gag reflex. Maybe. Maybe not. My best guess: everyone is different. It might work for some folks but not for others.

It certainly can't hurt you. If you have trouble deep throating, give it a shot.

With a willing partner who wants to work together with you to make oral sex hotter, I'd guess most anyone can learn to deep throat sooner or later. But I think we're kind of talking about those random encounters with dudes you meet just once or twice where there is little room for more detailed conversation. In cases like this, do the best you can and have fun.

But this leads me to something else which deserves it's own topic heading, probably: guys who get off on choking other guys.

I can't stand this shit, but I do understand that this is erotic for some dudes. Even some cocksuckers want to be choked.

I've been told I'm "the best" at giving head by a few dudes who happen to like the SAME things as I like when I am getting head. But I think I stink at giving head to guys who get off on choking other guys. If a dude lets me ENJOY his dick on the rare occasions that I want to suck a dick, we both have a good time. But the minute he rams his cock in my throat, I gag. I almost NEVER recover from this. I fucking HATE it. STOP IT!

I DO prefer to get sucked, but I'm a gay dude and I love dick, too. I also get annoyed because I think these guys have some sort of size-issue wherein they need to prove they are big enough to choke someone. Get over it.

I met a nice dude the other night. Handsome face, beautiful eyes, masculine. He was all about sucking me, and I had no complaints. I really got off looking at his gorgeous face eating my dick. So much so that I wanted to please him in return. He had a smallish dick, though. Which was fine with me. But he had to go and shove that thing as far into my throat as he could. Ruined everything, at least as far as me enjoying HIS dick was concerned. I had to quit and let him finish me off. I didn't mind this, of course, but I would have had an even HOTTER time if he hadn't felt it necessary to choke me over and over.

Anyway... OraGel can't hurt, but it may or may not help. Try it and see.

And god bless Gilda Radner. I miss her.

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Since your trying to be the perfect cocksucker why no have your teeth removed during the surgery too. Just a thought :-))

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Because my teeth don't cause a gag reflex.

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I also have trouble with the gag reflex. Some things that I read help, for example:
If I ate recently, the reflex is a lot more sensitive. Seems like the old adage of "wait an hour after eating before swimming" applies to getting the little swimmers too. (Applies to food and liquids, although just liquids dissipate more quickly, and a little alcohol diminishes nerve sensitivity)


Recent practice. I noticed that when I was getting more frequent action (with ones that were long enough)., it gradually took more to gag. What I read was twice a week (or more) between incidents would help. it seemed proved true for me. I also noticed that after a long dry spell, it was back to normal. But then in the next flury of activity it diminished more quickly.

Being relaxed & comfortable helps.

Never got good at DT, but it's normally a non issue. Don't meet many hung, and most weren't pushing for it. Though I do tend to envy the guys who can do it easily on pornos/xtube etc.

As for teeth. I had to have mine removed because of a medical problem. After the teeth were gone, well it was lousy, dentures were nothing like the real thing, you can't really feel food & whatever through them like you do with real teeth and pallet. I always loved sucking a nice cock since I was about 13. But taking the denturs out- wow, I liked a cock in my mouth even more and no worries about trying to keep the teeth from scraping! Added bonus- sucking a thick one for a while (say more than 20 min) always made my jaw ache. No teeth, don't have to open the jaw as much. Never a jaw ache since! (It had no effect on the gag reflex).

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I have always found the being comfortable with the guy is the main thing for me -

The desire is always there - but comfort takes a bit longer.

Also I have found that when trying to take it deep in my throat if sometimes there is a little bit of gag reflex - it almost seems to "stroke the ego" of the guy I am sucking - there is a bit of pride about being long enough - even if he does not have that long a cock - just he hit the right spot to make me gag a bit.

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I have that happen on occasion also. but once i get him past that point, the reflex goes away and i can take all of him.

i have an eight inch soft dildo i'll "practice" with when i feel that reflex coming back. that helps me quite a bit!

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Same here orallyours61! Mine is harder though, but I can stick in on the shower wall so I can get down to suck it or fuck myself to practice once I can finally do... something!
I wish we could practice together.

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I want to buy one with the suction cup to stick on the wall - really want to try some butt play however as I get older reaching around it not as comfortable as it used to be!

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You can still practice sucking.

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i have two. that way i can suck and fuck at the same time

course for that, nothing beats the real things!!

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Thanks for the idea. I need a second one!

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I found this spray on line...deep throat spray, on amzon...........omg! it feels kinda weird but i took every inch of a 10in dildo and probably could have done more if i had a larger one!!!

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Is the spray called "MAX"?

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Goodhead Deep Throat Spray

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