a few tips for giving a BETTER BJ

hungry_marc21 · #1 15th January 2005, 02:58 PM

~Start by licking head of the penis in round circular motions. If he is uncut you can pull down the foreskin a bit to get to the head.

~Open your mouth wide and let the head of the penis enter your mouth, watch your teeth and use lots of tongue action and saliva.

~The basic movement is actually nothing like blowing or sucking. It is the action of your mouth causing friction over the sensitive skin of the penis.

~While the penis is in your mouth try to lick the underside of his penis paying attention to the underside of the head as this is a very sensitive and erotic part of the penis.

~Make sure that you use lots of saliva to lubricate your mouth.
You should try using your hands as well, gently play with his balls, the end of the shaft even his ass, as this will all add to the pleasure.

~If you are new to cocksucking, don't try getting all of his penis down your throat, as you can gag and this can be very uncomfortable.

~Try breathing through your nose.

~Lick from the head of the penis down to the base of it as well.
Use your tongue to gently massage and lick his balls as many guys will go totally over the edge with this.

~Try bobbing your head backwards and forwards on the he penis letting it slide in and out of your mouth. You can also use your lips to form a tight ring around the penis, but again make sure that your lips or your tongue cover your teeth.

~If he is uncut try getting your tongue between the head and the foreskin.

Hope these help,
Marc

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ScruffyCub · #2 17th January 2005, 06:07 PM

Nothing is more distressing to a newbie than to have his post ignored.

To that end... Welcome, Newbie!

I didn't respond to this earlier because there wasn't much to say about it, but that's a good thing. These are all decent tips for beginning cocksuckers. For those of us with a lot of experience, they may seem obvious or uninteresting.

But that's OK. There's plenty of guys out there who can benefit from the suggestions posted above.

Most of what is written here works very well for me and my dick, too!

If you want my opinion (and even if you don't, it's clear by now that I will provide it anyway), the BEST possible advice for giving head is this:

ASK your partner what he enjoys most. LISTEN to your partner's responses. TRY new things and see what makes the dude squirm.

If you get stuck with one of those guys that doesn't move, doesn't speak, doesn't show any signs of pleasure, doesn't have a dick that talks back to your mouth... well, don't despair. HE is the one missing out on a better experience because HE is not giving you the necessary input and encouragement. Probably the next guy you meet will be different.

I am not a big fan of ball-licking. Newbie makes notes that lots of guys "go wild" over this. This is true. Lots of guys DO love it. I met one such guy this weekend. All he wanted was to have his balls licked. Bored the hell out of ME, but I indulged him to make him happy. Why not? When a guy just licks around MY balls, I'm about ready to take a fucking nap. Squeezing my balls, sucking them with some even pressure, tugging them... THAT is cool with me. But licking... eh. Not special in my eyes.

So that's just one example of how everyone is different. Take the information above and try it all out if you're new to sucking dick. Odds are good that lots of it will yield excellent results and garner many compliments for your oral skills. Just don't worry if you do something that doesn't rock the world of the particular guy you are with -- he may want Item #3 and Item #4 on the list much more than he wants Item #6 and Item #8.

Keep posting, Newbie. It's always nice to hear a fresh voice, much as I enjoy the established dialogues with "old friends" here.

At the very least, keep READING.