okay gents . its time to tell what makes a good blow job. what techniques work on you.
dry or wet ?
fast or slow ?
gums or a little teeth ?
moustache or clean shaven ?
heavy work on the head or the shaft ?
tongue on the bottom ?
does the location make a difference ?
time to tell all !

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I think you'll improve your chances of getting answers if you take a few moments to fill out your profile, since you're posing an intimate, soul-baring question.

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What I prefer is:

--Neither dry nor wet
--More slow than fast. In fact, having my whole dick in the guy's mouth for a few seconds at a time is often the best feeling of all.
--Tongue on the bottom
--Above all, give me variety. There's nothing more boring than 15 minutes of the exact same thing going on down there. Alternate between fast and slow and how far you go down on it. Stop and lick the underside for awhile or suck my balls. Surprise me.

What I do not like is:

--Teeth
--Razor stubble (why not just give me a handjob with sandpaper?)
--Drooling (if there's too much saliva, there's no friction)
--Hands. If the guy is skilled, using hands generally makes me cum faster than I want to. But most guys who use hands not only aren't skilled, they're really bad, so it's just taking away from the pleasure of feeling their mouth. This is especially true of the guys who feel the need to clamp their hand around the base of my dick while sucking. That may fulfill some porn-inspired fantasy for them, but if you're grabbing me with a kung fu grip, that's all I feel, not your mouth.
--Guys who only take 2 inches of my dick in their mouth at a time. You don't have to deep throat me, but I have 7 inches to work with, so let's pay attention to some of the rest of it.
--Super suction. Some guys think that sucking dick means acting like they're trying to suck an extra thick milkshake through a straw. Again, this may do something for you, but it does nothing for me.

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Moist(not wet), slow(although I have a hair trigger, hence my nickname for my cock "Trigger"), tongue on the bottom, work on the head(although deep throat is good too), variety, plenty of tongue and lip action(soft and gentle), two way action(more than one guy at a time) and clean shaven.

Definate no is teeth, facial hair/stubble, too much saliva(pre cum should take care of most lubrication plus pre cum tastes great), I agree the kung fu grip is definately out as well.

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I mostly agree with assman.
Except I love strong suction. I like to feel the head swell up in my cocksuckers mouth.
I also like some breaks and admiration. Pop off it and look at it, tell me how good it tastes, etc
I especially agree about no drooling. Don't like wet dripping balls.

Also: be patient, bring it to the edge and then back off, then start up again. I typically like to go an hour before delivering my load.

And lastly: location. I get really hot outside, in woods, or at night standing in my yard or sitting on my front porch

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This is a great thread for a guy who is looking for his first cock to service. No stubble, no excessive saliva, no teeth, no strangulation of the cock, no rushing thru the act, and no failure to take the cock deep. I hope i got the important parts down. I have complete dentures and i hope guys wil like that, i've heard they do but also some guys i've chatted with don't seem to be impressed. I just hope i find good-natured and polite men and not jerks. I really want to do a good job and worship some nice cock. Is it okay to suck without a condom, and should i swallow their loads?

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If you are going to take cum in your mouth it's best to swallow it... from the point of satisfying your partner and, suprisingly, health. To me, getting a blowjob from a guy who won't take it in his mouth or spits it out is kind of a letdown. I love to watch a guy gulp down my load and beg for more.

I know a lot of guys shy away from swallowing due to HIV fears. I've read in several place, however, that it is actually safer to swallow than to hold it in your mouth and spit. When you swallow, it's down the hatch, traveling through and to body parts that are designed to break down substances and filter out impurities. The mouth is a more fragile space. Sucking is pretty low risk whether you swallow, hold it, or spit it, but if you take a load of HIV+ cum you are much better off to swallow it down.

Do you guys agree?

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Nothing better than knowing the person handling your cock is crazy hot for it. Having the tip kissed amidst the licking, sucking, etc. is nice. Watching your cocksucker go after your precum with their tongue and make a long string is very hot. An occasional down to the balls and hold it there while squeezing it with their throat can bring me close to the edge. The proper use of hands is a part of it. And for those very skilled few who can bring me right to the edge so that a steady stream of precum flows into their mouth...AH!

And of course, the way they take your cum!

Teeth scratches suck
Strong suction make my cock hurt after and does not add to the overall pleasure

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gotta agree with most of the replies - -

like it slow - like the head worked on royally. like to edge and let my pre-cum flow. like to see variety in sucking, licking, and kissing my meat. like to see my cockhead suckled. love to see someone feasting on it. like to have my whole package entertained, including fondling and licking my hairy breeding sac. grip the base firmly and admire my curved tool swell and glisten. since i edge and leak lots of pre-cum, i love to see my cockhead getting frothy film of pre. i'll let you know when i'm ready to cum.

definitely don't like teeth or stubble.

i differ with some of the replies . . . when i'm lying down . . . i don't mind it wet, especially when a stud works it into my balls. don't mind because when my cock gets slathered up like good, it means that someone is really into my cock and soon may be riding it.

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How about a condom? Fact is, the nasties you can get from oral still exist.

I like a good cock, but it is just seriously hard to really trust someone with whom your relationship is very casual. Many times the guy doesn't know he's infected with something anyway.

I find, personally, over and over again, that oral w/ condom really turns people off.

I rarely get out on the scene considering that I am a bi MWM. BUT, if/when I just can't see doing w/out a cover now.

However, most of what you guys are describing would seem to be less enjoyable when getting sucked through the latex.

Just some thoughts.

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I'm all for safety, but to me, oral sex with a condom is the stupidest form of sex imaginable. What makes oral sex feel good is the warmth, the moisture, the texture of the tongue and mouth. The feel of a mouth wrapped around latex sucking my dick is annoying and not in any way erotic. When a guy offers oral with a condom, I always say forget it. It's not worth the trouble. I'd rather get off with my hand than receive (or give) oral with a condom.

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only given head w/condom a couple times., and never enjoyed it. harder to tell how things are going (no precum detection & less sensation ) don't enjoy the taste (or lack thereof) didn't like the texture... and missed the payoff. it just wasn't worth repeating

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I am with you guys.

If I think there is a risk and the guy has something or there are sores on his dick - I will pass on sucking him.

If I am going to suck cock I want to enjoy - the taste and the feeling of his dick in my mouth is what gets me off - sucking a rubber I might as well give a blow job to a dildo.

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on my comment "wasn't worth repeating", repeated only because he wanted me to try flavored condoms to see if it was more enjoyable. (you're kidding... that's supposed to be chocolate?!) and yeah, it wasn't even any better than a dildo

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I agree...i love giving blowjobs and the thrill is the feel of his flesh on my lips...the smoothness of his skin as my lips glide up and down his shaft....and that intense feeling when he cums and i feel it and taste it flooding my mouth and taste buds

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