I belong to a nice suburban healthclub with all the bells and whistles - great work out area, pool, trainers and in the mens' locker room a hot tub, steam and sauna.

I get the sense that the steam room is fairly active. Guys come out with obvious erections under their towels. I can sit in the hot tub directly across from the steam room and observe. I've also been in there when guys have started touching themselves, but it is all so subtle, I never know how to react.

I am not sure I would want to touch anyone in there (too public) but I sure wouldn't mind some across the bench stroking and showing off. What is the best way to let a toucher know I am OK with him touching himself and that he has nothing to "worry about" from me?

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