Ok I want to say sorry for posting this here. But I do not know of any good gay blog sites to go to and put down my thoughts. So any ideas would be sincrely and greatly appreciated.

Alright so here is my rant.

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Ugh stupid site posted my post before I was done.

So any way, I am heading out to my favorite ABS. I get the private room. Which is basically a small room with a couch and tv in it and a lockable door. I love this room because any thing can go on. I am in there i am nude and watching some random movie I picked out. After awhile a guy comes in. ANd he does not hesitate he closes the door and undresses. He climbs into the couch with me and we begin to make out hot and heavy. And he is hitting every one of my buttons. He is playing with my tits and cock. He finally gets up and stands before me while I am laying on my side on the couch. I begin to suck him hard. I am working my best. I am moaning, making slurping noises, deepthroating him, licking his Shaved balls I am doing the whole show for him. He tells me to lay on my belly. I get to my tummy all while keeping his cock in my mouth. Never missing a stroke or nothing. He leans down and spanks my ass lightly. I love it. I like a nice quick sharp slap to my butt. And he does this a few times and tells me I have a sexy meaty, juicy ass. I take his word for it. He leans over again and he uses both hands and spread my cheeks. Then I hear him spit and I can feel his warm spit on my ass hole. He then rubs his fingers on ym hole and then with out saying any thing he plunges his finger in deep. I let out a gasping moan of delight. He fingers fucks me and then slides another finger in. I am moaning out loud. He then pulls out his cock. And with out saying any thing or asking he climbs on top of me and he quickly spread my cheeks again and he is ready to plunge his nice sized cock in my hole. Now I wanted this bad. It would be my first and he really got me turned me on. But I am still scared not from the pain frombeing my first, but the obviuos threat fo getting any sort of disease. I suddenly lurch forward slightly and ask him please to put a rubber on. He looks at me like I am speaking Martian. But I still want him. And in like 5 seconds he is dressed and out the door. I tell him in this time I have rubbers, but he wasn't hearing it. I was so saddened by this. I know of course I am lucky he possibly could have had some disease and spread it to me. But honestly it was just one of those times hwere he got so hot and bothered and made so very horny, more so then I normally am when I go to the ABS. But he really got to me. I hate to say it when he left I cried for a few minutes. I felt so weird from crying, but I did. I still feel sad about the whole event. But I got to say he really got to me and pressed all of my hot buttons and really had me all worked up.

So to me I am just thinking why in this day and age would some one nto expect to have to wear a rubber. I can understand if we were lovers and did the deed by getting checked and everything to make sure we are both safe and then have some possible unwrapped fun. But come on. Sorry for ranting here. I really am. But I have to say getting it off of my chest makes me feel a little bit better. But I just want to be safe and have fun and be safe.

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Some men fuck assholes, and some are assholes. He was totally out of line in today's world. I'm sure if he wasn't being smart with you, he isn't having smart sex elsewhere either.

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First - where do you have an ABS with couches? Sounds GREAT!

Second - be thankful. You did not even know his name and he wanted bareback. That is the kind of guy that could easily give you something.

Third - when you do it for your first time I would recommend a lot more lube than just spit!

Be thankful he left. You may have been frustrated but if he had stayed you may have had a lot more than frustration to deal with!

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I only bareback, but absolutely never with a guy I don't already know unless he has said that's what he wants...either verbally before I get to his ass, or by planting his ass on my cock. Even with the latter, I will usually ask him if he want's Dad's bare cock in him before entering. And, when I am in the mood to bottom, if I don't give the give the go-ahead, it doesn't matter how hot he is, he ain't getting in.

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I'm not so sure why you're coming down so hard on the guy. He was making a decision, probably one he made ages ago, that condoms were not something he wanted to use.

If he made an error in his actions, it would be to presume he should not use a rubber with you, but the moment to discuss condoms is always awkward at best. I suspect his behavior reflects years of first-hand experience since condoms are not essential for so many men having sex these days.

You also presumed if you insisted, he would comply. Both of you made false assumptions, easy to do when two strangers meet. In the end, I bet he was as frustrated as you!

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