-- 'X SIZE.', (Soi Twilight -off Suriwong rd.), has not been visited by me for donkey's years, (Query - 'How many donkey's years in a Coon's Age?' - Printer's Devil.), thus I resolved - strictly in the line of duty, you u"stand. - to visit it last night, (sat.),.
- I came into the soi via the back way, (I mean from the Rama IV. rd. end - ha!), and spoke with one of its barkers, who told me that show time would start at 10 o'clock, (22hrs.). Time enough for a small supper in 'Dick's Cafe.' - not too full - beforehand.
- Having sat-down I saw, across the soi, a large poster advertising X-SIZE's 'Mr. ... contest.' and 14 or so trophies on a nearby table.
- I arr'd. at about 21.50hrs., and paid the 300.Bh. adm'n. charge.
- Fairly full - I noticed MORE than the usual amt. of wimmen - that I was shewn to a seat at stage front.
- just a dozen R&F. boyz on parade: a couple of twinks and the rest pretty much the usual run-of-the-mill types.
- No ash-trays put-out that I could see - but a few people smoking ciggies. - phew;
- Hse. lts. dimmed at 22.30.hrs..
- For the first 15 or so mins. we had to endure the badinage, wch. the Ths. seemed to find amusing at times, of two OS./XXL. wimmen: OMG. but they are huge - not the sort that one would want to **** into on a dk. night.
- The flg. acts were presented by the various other bars in the soi and by 'Babylon Sauna.' -
1st.- 4 dancing boyz wearing imitation leather collars and four-lobed leather aprons danced and revealed their assets - lg. by Th. stds. - for all to see;
2nd.- 4 clothed dancing boyz & chantoosie;
3rd.- Katoey danceuse;
4.- Chantoosie;
5.- Chantoosie;
6.- 3 boi dancers & katoey;
7.- 4 boyz who sat-down au naturel and then put-on their see-through and body-hugging tights -through wch. one could see their endowments all too clearly - before dancing;
8.- First part of contest, 14 contestants wearing their street-clothes. Judging was by a gp. of people who sat-back by stage right and held-up the value of their vote, (a disc on a stick.): most boyz scored between 7-9 from the judges; commered by the two fat ladies;
9.- Ethnic dance by the little olde lady whom one used to see in 'Tawan Bar.' ; this time she was wearing some vaguely Indian-type costume. While she danced the two fat lades maintained a constant stream of distracting and background chatter wch. they did not do for the other acts; but several spectators shewed their appreciation in the usual way;
10.- Male stripper - quite well endowed;
11.- 4 boyz in simul'd. s*x act and smoking - well enough endowed for Ths.;
12.- Chantoosie;
13.- 5 boyz, au naturel - leader well endowed - in Candle Show;
14.- Second half of contest: contestants wore briefs - same procedure as above, (#8.); this time having presented themselves they remained on stage, wch. rather blocked some voyeurs' views of other contestants;
15th. and last.- Prize-giving commered by the two fat ladies; as far as I could follow every contestant rec'd. a sash and a trophy; boi #4. was the eventual winner: sash, trophy and financial award!
- Hse. lts. ON again at around 01.25hrs..

-- It must have been some Ladies' night out. as I've never seen somany in a Soi T'light. a go-go bar before - many of them were heftily built, too.
- I should have remembered my lesson from a similar and previous event in 'Tawan Bar.' - never ever give a Th. person a microphone: an open invitation for him/her to blather ad nauseam and a sentence to the farang listeners. Had I not paid 300.bh. I would have quit quite early on - but stoicly I decided to remain right to the bitter end.
- I'd recomend future visitors to sit stage RIGHT: with the bar and CR. at stage LEFT those sitting stage LEFT or FRONT will have their lines-of-sight interrupted constantly by others passing to and fro.
- Back in my acc'n. and undressing I noted that my tee-shirt smelt of nicotine - not too badly but enough to cause my sensitive nose to twitch.
-- Bibi.. --

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I offed a guy from Hot Male last week; the first time I've taken anyone from that bar. He didn't have much personality, but I really fell for his body. I didn't except much, but I just wanted to give the young man a total tongue bath! If he did much at all I figured it would be bonus. Well ... he was a dud. No big disappointment. But what really annoyed me was that after I paid him 1,200 baht (very fair, I thought, considering he was one of those "just laid there" types) he whined and demanded 1,500. No way, I told him (speaking in Thai). You didn't do much so you don't get much. He continued to sulk. I threw in an extra 100 baht to get rid of him. And then he still wanted the coins that were on the table. He didn't get them. Another thing that pissed me off; when I went to take a shower, he started smoking a cigarette in the other room. I was tempted to hurl both him and the ciggie out the window. Whatever happened to polite and personable bar boys?
By the way, he was #30 if you go to the bar; and IF he is still working there. With that sort of bad attitude I don't think he's going to be around very long.

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-- I was thinking of visiting HOT MALE, (Soi Twilight.), tomorrow, (07 jun.), evening for their 22.30.hrs. perf., so thanks for the warning about #30.;
-- Bibi.. --

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Well, as the song would have it:

or more appropriately:

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I can never remember numbers, which in any case, change all the time. By any chance was his name "Ed" or something like that? Ed is about the biggest boy in Hotmale, beefy, but not well defined, about 70 kg and about 1,7metres. His English is better than the rest and that way can be seductive.

If he's not the #30, I'd still warn others against off'ing him. In the room, his services are nil. While he didn't get aggressive with me -- that was years ago -- a friend of mine who made the mistake of taking him recently said he demanded 1800 - 2000 and got aggressive about it too.

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Well in defense of the bar, not any particular boy, Hot Male is where I found the guy I was taking off regularly (and who has since been retired from the gogo business). He is a real gem, both in terms of performance and personality.

While I have done my share of offing over the years, I haven't taken off the hundreds of boys that some of you apparently have. Nonetheless, despite having taken off a few who needed to consider a career move, I've never encountered a boy who was aggressive, whiny or demanding.

Not sure if it's down to luck or my subsconscious selection process or if some people just bring out the worst in others. Possibly the starting point for a graduate research-based thesis:" Aggression Triggers Amongst Thai Comfort Boys."

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I have to admit, I have taken hundreds of boys, but also have never experienced aggression. I reckon while they all need $$, they also have feelings and many are genuinely looking for "love", and the feeling of being "looked after". If I dont get a feeling of chemistry with the boy, or a feeling that he is attracted to me for more than just $$, I slip him 100 bt and suggest he re-join the parade. I want sex to be fun with a responsive boy, and even if I could off "Adonis" or "David" I wouldn't take him without the right signals. All bars have "good" boys and "slime-balls"...you just have to sort out the wheat from the chaff before you head back to the nest.

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-- Last night, (sat.), I ret'd. to HOT MALE, (Soi Twilight.), and arr'd. just before 22.hrs. to find about 25 spectators there, plenty of waiters and possibly 30+R&F. a go-go boyz.
- Drinks are 220.Bh..
- I did not see #30. on pde.. I wouldn't say that anyone of them was in any way a particular piece of eye-candy, possibly the boyz in FUTURE BOYS are MORE eye-candy?
- Hse. its. dimmed at 20.20hrs..
1.- 2gps. of 2 boys danced and then combined;
2.- 5 boyz in immit'n. grass skirts, wch. shewed off their assets, danced; none overly well-endowed, the 2 most muscled, possibly #6. & #17 from the R&F. boyz? LESS well so;
3.- 3 boyz plus 1 wearing a white & tightly laced-up corset, danced; the latter smoked the others;
4.- 2 boyz, flour. pt. dance au nat'l.;
5.- Big **** Show, #30., (well tattooed.), appeared to be best endowed, (maybe because his smaller & more compact body emphasised the length?
6.- 2 boyz in massage show, #6. & #17. again; concluded with mutual smoking;
7.- 5 boyz in a dance routine;
8.- 3 boyz in JO. act, for wch. only 1 shewed any enthusiasm, the other 2 merely went through the motions
- Hse. lts. ON again at 23.15hrs..

-- Gentle Reader, you'll have spotted, no doubt, that one act from the std. repetoire above is missing - no reason was given.

-- No ash trays set-out; I saw no-one, except for 1 member of staff, smoking a ciggie.. Despite that my shirt still smelt slightly of nicotine.

-- Initially no wimmen, a few started entering after end of 1st. perf..

-- Bibi.. --

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No fuck show at Boys Bangkok, either, on Friday evening (late show).

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...but strangely enough, for the first time ever, I saw a f*ck show in Pattaya last week. 2 naked boys f*cking under a large satin sheet raised and lowered rhythmically to the music. I'm not going to name the bar here (BB is watching) but it was one of the major cabaret bars.

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A friend of mine took a boy from Hot Male last night (someone he has been eyeing for over a month) and raved about how good he was. In every day; well endowed and versatile in bed, polite, and personable. He'd kill me if I gave out the number!

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I never undersatand why someone doesnt want to share the number of a boy. Unless you are going to make him your BF then ,you help both him and the readers by giving his number.

He gets more offs and the readers have at least a possible boy who may be good for them.

If you are worried about someone taking him off permanently , that will happen whether or not you post it here if it is meant to happen

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-- I fear lest you may be an idealist in this 'Best of all possible worlds.'.
- I've noticed that the older some men, such as in our life-style, grow the MORE retentive or possessive and/or the MORE unwilling to let-go or to share they become.
- It's 100%. for sure - in my own ltd. experience, at least - that jealousy becomes self-defeating eventually. I tell all my boyz that I keep them in a cage with an OPEN door; if they want to fly-away then that'll be up to them, if they return then again that'll be their own and free choice. And no - it's not some sort of gilded cage, either.
-- Bibi.. --

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Have not been to Hot Male bar...have enjoyed shows at X,Dream Boy and Jupiter this trip.Should I try ? What is the mix of types there and are there some gems and rough diamonds ?

Waiting for your views.

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-- As they say: 'One man's meat ... .'.
- An earlier respondent wrote about his friend who'd been eyeing-up a boi in HOTMALE for a month, who then offed him and so on ... and is unwilling to reveal that boi's number.
- On the other hand, on my recent visit above I didn't see any boi at whom I'd look-at twice, much LESS off.

-- My main note about HOTMALE's acts is that there seems to be little synch. between the boyz doing their act on stage and the music - all to often the act would end in mid-air, as it were, and the boyz were saved only by the stage's lts. being dimmed.
- Little if any sense of spontaneity or of esprit de corps, even between the boyz on stage, little if any sense of F U N that would make me say: "Wowee! what a supercalifragilitic night out that was!".
- Yes - I do realize that it's all too difficult to maintain one's smile night after night after night faced by elderly farangs who are probably MORE interested in either their (temp'y.), companions or merely the sizes of the performers' appendages. But, as the olde hoofers amongst us would say: 'The show must go on - so break a leg.'.

-- Final advices: Go and see for yourself! Drinks cost 200.bh. and 1st. perf. starts around 22.15hrs.; and then tell us all about it! We're all ears - well, not quite, if you follow? Ha! Ha!!
-- Bibi.. --

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