first trip to bangkok - some advice please..

1st_timer · #1 18th October 2009, 05:08 AM

I'll stay in BKK in December, about 10 days, mainly for business, but there will be some private time in the afternoon or at nite.
I like masculine boys or men, many types, from lean to beefy.
They also dont have to be 18, anything goes from 20 to 45.
Also wouldnt like to bring someone to where I stay.
I am quite regular I guess, but most of all I like to fuck.
What I hear about Thailand is that the guys there are mostly feminine and skinny, and the others are straight and dont like to be fucked or givin blowjobs.

Before I start to visit some bars or other venues by random and get disappointed maybe some experienced guy can give me some advice.

Thanks in advance

df · #2 20th October 2009, 04:43 AM

My suggestions:
Clubs - Silom Soi 2 & 4, Lang Suan Bars
Massage Places - Hero and Senso Men's Club
Sauna - Mania
Go Go Boys - Dream Boys and Tawan

1st_timer · #3 20th October 2009, 06:45 PM

Thanks for the reply, I will try out your suggestions...

I have little knowledge about "cruising etiquette" in Thailand, just some general behaviour advice like "dont touch thai people on the head".
Beside the usual (being friendly , polite ), what makes me more attractive?

I'm quite tall (6'6"), is that a plus or

df · #4 20th October 2009, 08:49 PM

If u are willing to pay, being clean and polite are enough.

The Thai non-money-boy crowd is no different from the crowd in your local popular gay discos/bars. The popular gay look is so universal, u are hot if u are in ur mid 20's, not sissy, a gym bunny, and fashionable on the masculine side.

sextile · #5 24th October 2009, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by 1st_timer

... .
I'm quite tall (6'6"), is that a plus or

-- I'm a mere 6' 02".- but possibly that's because I'm MORE weighed-down by the years!

- From my limited experience I'd say that being that tall might be no advantage - one is quite obvious enough being a farang as it is without standing-up taller than the general populace.
- You'll find few if any Thais that tall; indeed some might be put-off by your height.
- But do not be discouraged; politeness and being a good listener will go a long way here, as in many another place.

-- Wishing you Good Luck & Success!
-- Sanookie dee!

wantasian · #6 27th October 2009, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by sextile

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-- I'm a mere 6' 02".- but possibly that's because I'm MORE weighed-down by the years!

- From my limited experience I'd say that being that tall might be no advantage - one is quite obvious enough being a farang as it is without standing-up taller than the general populace.
- You'll find few if any Thais that tall; indeed some might be put-off by your height.
- But do not be discouraged; politeness and being a good listener will go a long way here, as in many another place.

-- Wishing you Good Luck & Success!
-- Sanookie dee!

I'm 6'3" and found that my tallness is no real advantage--EXCEPT for some reason, I end up in relationships with real SHORT Thai. I don't care about their height--but for some reason, the really short ones end up attracted to me to where they need to see more of me. Sextile--I think I know you--and you know me (we've talked)!

wantasian · #7 27th October 2009, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by 1st_timer

I'll stay in BKK in December, about 10 days, mainly for business, but there will be some private time in the afternoon or at nite.
I like masculine boys or men, many types, from lean to beefy.
They also dont have to be 18, anything goes from 20 to 45.
Also wouldnt like to bring someone to where I stay.
I am quite regular I guess, but most of all I like to fuck.
What I hear about Thailand is that the guys there are mostly feminine and skinny, and the others are straight and dont like to be fucked or givin blowjobs.

Before I start to visit some bars or other venues by random and get disappointed maybe some experienced guy can give me some advice.

Thanks in advance

I don't think you'll have any problem finding masculine ones who want to get sucked but they might not want to get fucked or kiss. Maybe check out some saunas, too. You'll have to put up with a lot of rejection but will have more success than in Western saunas. Unlike Western saunas where gays go not so much to have sex as to pose and waste time (play gay mind games), the Thai generally want sex (although you'll see a lot of weird parading, too). Yes you'll mostly have feminine try to connect with you but you can also find some masculine if you try.

sextile · #8 28th October 2009, 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by wantasian

... .
Sextile--I think I know you--and you know me (we've talked)!

-- Should I be flattered or apprehensive?

- Like Dr. Sam'l. Johnson I count any day lost in wch. I haven't made a new friendship.
-- Bibi. --

silomGWM · #9 28th October 2009, 04:11 AM

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Originally Posted by sextile

- Like Dr. Sam'l. Johnson I count any day lost in wch. I haven't made a new friendship.

I googled that saying of Johnson's and couldn't find it on the first couple of pages of results. Can you give your authority for attributing it to Dr Johnson?

stillthrobbing · #10 28th October 2009, 08:32 AM

http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sourc...qBhXiRMihp7Zrw

sextile · #11 28th October 2009, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by stillthrobbing

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-- Khun Stillthrobbing -
- Thank you for your industry in finding and for giving us that reference - apreciated, that's 100%. for sure.

silomGWM · #12 29th October 2009, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by sextile

Khun Stillthrobbing -
- Thank you for your industry in finding and for giving us that reference - apreciated, that's 100%. for sure.

Yes thanks for allowing us to see that sextile is, once again, 100% inaccurate. I didn't think the good doctor would be so foolish as to say what sextile attributed to him and indeed he did not. He used the word "acquaintance" which is someone who ISN'T a friend, merely someone one meets or knows.

christianpjr · #13 29th October 2009, 02:49 AM

silomGWM, do you have a thing for sextile??! LOL

stillthrobbing · #14 29th October 2009, 11:46 PM

100% inaccurate? I don't think so. At worst, no more than 50%. And I would have forgotten the quotation altogether had it not been for Sextile's referring to it.

After all, making an acquaintance can be the prelude to making a friend.

Or an enemy.

Taoboxer · #15 30th October 2009, 02:39 AM

Uh...so does that make the Thai guy I off a friend or an acquaintance? After all, he'll have seen and done much more of and with me - and I with him - than even my best friend ever has. Or wants to.

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