I have never tried gay sex but I have been wanting to suck and get fucked by 2 or more guys. I just want to know how bad anal sex hurts for a virgin ass. I have been sucked before so I think I can do that. I would also like to see some pics of several possitions by a guy getting banged. Black men turn me on the most but any nice shaved cock looks good to me. I am also interested in shemales for the same. I just need advice on where to begin. I am new to this but have had this desire for a loooooooong time. I just need some advice from you all. Thanks

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The first time I got fucked, at age 44, it hurt so bad that I thought I was going to pass out. You may as well know and be prepared for that. Some guys say that their first time didn't hurt at all, so you'll find different stories, but don't let anyone tell you that it definitely won't hurt, because it probably will.

Having said that, in the time since then I have come to understand how to prepare myself and to control the penetration to minimize the pain.

In cases where I anticipated sex, I would prepare myself in advance by slowly inserting a butt plug in my ass and keeping it there for a couple of hours at least. This is helpful even as much as a day in advance for me. The butt plug itself, or dildo, if you prefer, will not be painless, but you at least have the control to take your time with insertion and work it in until it feels comfortable.

In cases where the sex is spontaneous and there wasn't enough time to prepare yourself, an alternative would be to have your partner insert his fingers into your ass. First one finger and then two. This not only helps stretch your sphincter, it's a hell of a lot of fun for both of you.

If you worry about cleanliness (I prefer a clean ass) you should give yourself a "douche." Some doctors suggest that enemaas can be addictive, but you must decide for yourself if it's worth the risk to have clean sex.

Even though my first time was painful, I didn't give up. After I suffered through the initial penetration, the pain subsided and I was able to enjoy making love with the dear, sweet man who was with me at the time. Now I love to get fucked if it's safe, clean, and painless.

I am sure there are lots of other perspectives from people here who can add their own experiences and valuable advice.

Don't forget your condoms!

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Can you give me some tips/pics etc on some of the difeerent positions. Sorry for all the questions but I'm a newbie and would like to know a little about what to do before I actually try it. I really want to do 2-6 men but I dont know if my ass can take it. Of course I still can suck but I just want to feel more than 1 cock.

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Also what is the best way to find sex. I cant do this in my town or area so I will need to travel. I just need some experienced studs to show me the rope.

Do any of you all get turned on as much by big black cock as me. I get aroused just by seeing a pic of one and any nice shaved cock for that matter.

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The first time I was fucked, the position was with me on my back, legs up in the air and spread apart, and my partner was between my legs and facing me. That is part of the reason it hurt so much, because I didn't have any control. My lover was someone who also had had no experience, so he didn't really know how fast was too fast. The next time he fucked me I had him lie on his back with me straddling his hips and sitting down on his dick. That way I could control the entry, and make it more comfortable for me. It still hurt, but not as badly. And again, the pain soon subsided and I was able to enjoy feeling his dick in my ass.

I met this guy in an online masturbation chatroom back in 1998. He lives in California, I live in Oklahoma, but he managed to book a business trip here and we met at his hotel. Sadly, I haven't seen him since I spent that fantastic afternoon and morning of the next day with him. We have talked and emailed, but even that has petered out.

Many of the other people I have met were in our local gay.com chatroom. But Oklahoma City is a large city, so there are lots of us here and the sheer size makes blending in easier and not as conspicuous. There are also many more opportunities for sex here, such as the occasional all-male orgies or the large selection of cruisy parks and hotels.

I know you're eager to take more than one cock, but maybe you better pace yourself! It'll probably be difficult to get several guys together with the single mission of fucking your sweet ass anyway. Start with one guy and take it from there.

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Don't be frightened away by Edmond's 'almost passing out'. That is not the norm. Edmond, if you had had an experienced partner, things might have been very different.

Also, walking around with a butt-plug in for HOURS will leave you sore to begin with. The sphincter doesn't really need to be "stretched", unless you have the inability to take a dump. Think about it.

It's all in the ability to relax. If you are up-tight and fearful (which it sounds like you are), then it's basically gonna' be a rape ... and rapes hurt. If you are anxious, eager, and well-lubed, and if you have an EXPERIENCED and caring partner, then it'll be fine. I'm primarily a bottom, but I've topped guys who've never been topped, and they I have to keep telling them to relax ... their muscles are physically tense as they anticipate the "pain". Once they are relaxed and we get started, they're like "WOW!" This is awesome!

Positions, too, are key. In my experience, the 'legs-in-the-air" position is one of the hardest, because it naturally stretches the muscles in your ass ... so it makes them tight to begin with. The same goes for squatting over your boyfriend. Try squatting with your ass open and tell me if you can do it and keep your ass relaxed. Not unless you are a ballet dancer. And if you are a ballet dancer, I'LL come to Missouri and fuck you.

Poppers help a lot, too. They relax the sphincter muscles and they help you really get "into it". Keep them fresh by keeping them in the fridge, if you can.

Now ...

Lay down on your stomach, spread cheeks, take some poppers if you do them (NO VIAGRA WITH POPPERS, DUH!), and let him finger your ass with lots of lube. Get into it. Love it. You'll be begging him (them) for more.

Dildos are not NEARLY as comfortable as cocks. So if a dildo or butt-plug hurts, don't panic. Cocks don't. Really.

Now, that being said .... taking 5 or 6 black guys (!!!) on your first time might be a little like saying that you've always wanted to learn to sail, so you want to try your hand at the helm of the Queen Mary. After all, she's a beauty! Uh, you are not ready, Grass-hopper (you won't get that if you're under 30).

Don't be greedy.

And call me if you are a ballet dancer. I'll even bring a couple of black guys.

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A good Rimmer and some poppers will take away the pain!! I once had a Cock of 13inches and to be frank was a little worried but he rimmed me for what seemed like hours and then a little popper and off to the races. I after affects of a tingly ass kept me horny for 2days, and to try 2 cocks at once!

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it still may be possible to sell some one the Brooklyn bridge.

For me, I don't understand why some liar can post a message stating I'm "looking for my first time" and guys stand in line to suck up to it.

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I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and the advice here is good for other people reading. However, I'm didn't respond since I had the same suspicion as Sensual.

The multiple requests for pictures sent up a red flag.

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