Hi Wantasian.

No need for the snarky tone.

I think my description of what he does made it seem a bit more dragged out and underhand than it is - i think most boxers know pretty much straight away what he is after, and he is happy they do.

What I think the subtle approach he uses is for is to make it easier to contact guys who are happy to play with a guy (or at least happy to play for money) but do not officially self-identify that way, for reasons of "face".

And obvously he gets many rejections, but that is part of the process - the thrill of the chase.

You could argue that what he does is more interesting than a guy who goes to Pattaya and never leaves the gogo bars of Boystown, and is accepted by every guy he asks down from the stage.

Not that there is anything wrong with that but there is a bit of the "kid in a candy-store" aspect - it gets a bit dull after a while.

Anyway, I just hope your attitude does not put people who have interesting experiences with boxers (or anybody else off the gogo and host bar beaten track) from posting on this tread.

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Well said. That type of self-centered judgmentalism has been on display a bit too often.

The Thai-boxer type of "thrill of the chase" would bore me, but to each his own.

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In my previous trips to Thailand I met a few Boxers. They were confident, masculine, adventurous and very easy to get along with but not afraid to say what they liked or didn't like as I grow tired of the everything always being "up to you sir".

I don't want hugs, kisses or affection. I don't want a boyfriend or sniff kisses. I like a man that acts like a man and I find that the Fighters I have met are those types of guys. It also does not hurt that they have a gym trained body that is hard in all the right places and to have a body built for work and not simply for show.

There is more to it than that but I figure it is easier to explain the easy part, the hard part to explain in the flavor and smell of what attracts me to the boxer type of dish.

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-- Today, (13th.), forenoon I was chatting with a fair dinkum Aussie. mate who's been visiting the LoS. for the last score or so of yrs.; now he visits twice per annum.
- He mentioned that he used to visit PATTAYA frequently - he was last there maybe a decade ago - and had no trouble then in picking-up MT. boxers after their bouts for the night were finished - no need for fishing-around, beating-about the bush or whatever: straight & direct up front. Most - even though many are straight - welcomed the opportunity to accept his offer of the Final Favor; of course some pecuniary considerations might have sweetened the deal?

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